01-16-2014, 08:37 AM
Keeping my focus on the "I'm really unsexy" belief, which I absolutely want to get rid of.
I was also contemplating neediness, being needy - that feeling of not being complete, and thus, having the need for something to happen or be given/said/done by a woman.
It's funny, I always assumed I knew what "being needy" means, but now it appears quite mysterious to me.
<plowing through this>
This EPIC post by Sean, taken from an old thread, seems to fit well into what I'm going through these days:
http://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-smash-...-5g?page=3
I was also contemplating neediness, being needy - that feeling of not being complete, and thus, having the need for something to happen or be given/said/done by a woman.
It's funny, I always assumed I knew what "being needy" means, but now it appears quite mysterious to me.
<plowing through this>
This EPIC post by Sean, taken from an old thread, seems to fit well into what I'm going through these days:
If you look at the beliefs like energy: the old ones are losing energy, and the new ones are gaining energy. The old ones don't like losing energy, and they make a last stand. They find a situation where they used to be strong, and create an illusion that they are STILL strong. Once you push past that illusion, that conflict is done.
The more times you push past the illusion, the weaker the old beliefs get, and the weaker the illusions become.
Eventually, the illusion is less than a heat shimmer, easily overlooked. Less than ghosts, they fade further until they are no more.
The more times you push past the illusion, the weaker the old beliefs get, and the weaker the illusions become.
Eventually, the illusion is less than a heat shimmer, easily overlooked. Less than ghosts, they fade further until they are no more.
http://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-smash-...-5g?page=3
All fear is illusion.
