SM v3 so far so good

[Shannon]

haha jeah u r right i am at day 11 stage 3...

i find myself too not knowing what to say when women talk to me... its weird because they want to make a connection with me but i dont know how to react like i am from another world...i am confused about normal human problems...i also start to think about the bacteria and the viruses in vaginas and how unhygienic sex is lol...

i am excited too...i think it will be a crazy journey. i am planning to go to the spring break in croatia in june and test sm there :angel:.... i will definitly run the refresher stage for 6 months after finishing

i want to become what shannon wrote something between james bond and hugh hefner...

Aha, the truth comes out, you have an unreasonable fear that is holding you back. Fear of sex because you believe that vaginas are somehow unhygenic. That will certainly hold you back from having sex, and that's a belief that has to go. So let me educate you a little bit here.

A woman's body has an opening (the vaginal canal) that leads from the outside world into her abdomen. Theoretically this would allow her to get an infection that would quickly spread through her body and kill her... but this virtually never happens. Why? Because the vaginal secretions are designed to kill bacteria and viruses via their acidity, and what they cannot kill, they flush out by constantly producing more secretions that flow out of her body. When she isn't menstruating, the flow is slow and not very obvious unless she is aroused sexually for some reason.

So these "viruses and bacteria" you talk about are in your head. Unless she has an STD or a yeast infection. Yeast is neither virus nor bacteria, and an STD is a different story. But a woman who has neither of these is perfectly safe to have sex, presuming you don't mind the risk of pregnancy.

If she has a yeast infection, she can pass that to you if you have unprotected sex with her, and again, STDs are an entirely different story.

Wearing a condom will prevent the transmission of most STDs, and slow down those few (like genital warts) that aren't stopped. So get it out of your head that vaginas are somehow full of bacteria and viruses and are therefore unhygenic for sex. If that was the case, the human race would have died out instead of thriving like crazy.