12-08-2013, 09:17 AM
(12-03-2013, 11:05 AM)Larry Wrote:(10-21-2013, 04:19 PM)Shannon Wrote: [*]Socializing is much easier now, and I find that it is so natural that in the ways that I socialize, it has become as automatic as breathing.
Shannon I was wondering if you have to run out of things to say when socializing, or it just flow. Do you have social freedom?
Personally sometimes I have to run out of this things to say, now I am doing some exercises to fix it and make it flow, but I don't if it's a waste of time and it's all about overcoming this fear.
In any social situation, you deal with people who may or may not be easily "readable". I can read most types of people pretty well, but even then, they may have interests or whatnot that are incompatible with mine. When I encounter that I do sometimes run out of things to say, and then I will excuse myself and either go somewhere else or find someone else to talk to and come back to the person after a while and try again.
I have found a way to make socializing flow nicely though. It is a side effect of one aspect of the Optimus Engine, and I believe I can create a program for social slow and freedom along the lines of Natural Seduction For Men.
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I'm not sure what Stage 12 of BAMM 2.0 is doing, but I know it's still doing. Things have been very confusing lately, and it's hard to know what is what in some things. I just keep moving forward.
I think some of the things I'm going to but in the BAMM 2.0 accent program (which I am calling "the football", because you take it along with you all the way to the goal) are:
Constant focus on dressing well.
Constantly guarding and valuing your time.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!