Fluffybunny's Sex Magnet 3 Journal

[Shannon]

The auras are ignited even in Stage 1, but they're not fully developed until Stage 3 or 4. It's a process of bringing them online and powering them up.

I tend to work on the idea that anywhere I go is a possible place to find attractive women to talk to. I prefer to go where I will be assured that they will be there every time I am, so that I can let them get to know me over time at their own pace in a nonthreatening way and environment. The result is that I tend to go for women I meet working at places and also women who frequent events like Trivia, which happen every week or whatnot.

My way is slow and steady. I'm not worried about getting in her pants, or even getting her number. I enjoy her company and slowly build comfort and trust, and escalate things very gently over time. It makes it effortless to get numbers and whatever else when I do go for them. She knows me, she's seen what I am like without me trying to get her, she's comfortable with me and she knows she can trust me. So when I suggest we should exchange contact information, she's perfectly comfortable with it, and then I can say, hey, I'm going to the movies, you should come. And she'll come along because she enjoys my company.

Slow, steady, calm, comfortable, gentle escalation at her pace. It's not going to get you laid in one day in 99% of cases, and probably will take days, weeks, or even months. But, once you do get to sex with her, it's all set up for a relationship that includes sex and whatever degree of romance you want as well. If you throw honesty into the mix, and you answer all her questions truthfully, you can end up in a situation here you're having full blown romantic and sexual relationships with two or more women at the same time, and they all know about (and maybe even know!) one another.

That's how I do it, unless she shows me in the moment that she needs and wants faster than that.

Don't go for an escort as an easy way to get to sex, unless:

1. You go out with your escort and have her act as your social proof (where nobody knows her or that she's there for pay), or
2. You can manage to get your escort to fall in love with you and give you sex for free.

#2 is a bad idea. If she's an escort, she's not going to be having sex with just you, and the propensity for drama is crazy. Escorts also think differently, and what is acceptable behavior for them is not normal, or in many cases, emotionally healthy. Especially for an emotional relationship, a committed relationship, or goodness forbid she become pregnant with you...

But, if you can trigger a woman to fall in love, it's game over 98% of the time. Just be careful not to get her in love and then just use her for sex. You want her to be in love and you reciprocating that emotion, or she'll eventually turn on you. And as we all know... there is no fury like that of a woman scorned.