10-09-2013, 03:27 PM
(10-09-2013, 02:54 PM)Shannon Wrote: When it comes to what women like, the biggest mistake that guys make is assuming that any one thing covers all women.
You're going to find women who are more emotional/irrational, or more intellectual/rational. Guess what? They want different things. There are younger females and older females. Guess what? They want different things. There are women of different racial types, who have different body chemistries as a consequence, and yes, they want different things. There are different personality types and they want different things. There are women of different levels of education, and again, they want different things. Just as with different levels of intelligence and experience. Just as with a woman wanting what she does because of what her unique response to her unique history is.
In short, genetics don't dictate everything when it comes to the fact that a woman is female. Neither do hormones. Every woman is going to want and need something different. It's your job to figure out what that is, if you must, and provide it for her if you're going to make her happy.
To get what you want (sex), you must give her (or be) what she wants. She may not always consciously know what that is, but sex is not a one person deal, unless you're masturbating. If she's not getting anything out of the deal, why would she have sex with you?
Some women want to be dominated, some want to dominate. Some want to lead, some want to be led. If your approach isn't a match, she won't have sex with you, or at least, not very long. So either figure out what she needs and determine whether you can and are willing to give that to her, or move on.
Remember that it's not always about what she likes, it's also frequently about what she expects and believes she deserves.
So how do you find out what she wants?What are the things you are looking for?
