10-01-2013, 03:36 AM
(10-01-2013, 12:03 AM)Sean Wrote: The weird thing is that parts of our relationship were really good, usually the ones where I was leading/directing. The parts where I did not lead were death sentences for the relationship, because it brought out her worst qualities and mine.
Sounds like you found the key right there. Why not just maintain your leading tendencies? This is true for women anywhere, not just your ex. And sure some can be worse than others for ball-busting I'd imagine, but you yourself have to handle that aspect of your mental fortitude.
My coach told me that "A woman will test a man till the day he dies."
So, you can either run from that fact as I have most of my life, or you can grab the bull by the horns.
If it were me, I'd decide if I wanted to f*ck the woman, if I did, and wanted to do it often, I'd find a way to be the man who could handle her sh*t.
Anyhow, that's my take.
