07-10-2013, 07:38 PM
(This post was last modified: 07-11-2013, 09:19 PM by LionMonkey.)
DAY 7 - NOTES
Being a high value guy you have lots of responsibilities.
- You have to be extra in-tune with other peoples mood around you
- You have to be the one who leads the interaction forward
- You have to maintain an attitude of not showing off that you are of higher value but be empathic with people while leading
I've realized something. I'm much more high-value than I think I am. It's like I'm not being 100% sure that I am high-value but I know I'm pretty close. I just need to own it fully.
That's the reason why my interactions goes as they go because I'm still balancing around without a cement-like foundation. I've come to the point where I can go in an interaction and demand attention and look confident but I'm still having some counter-beliefs because of my value-system.
So how do I develop the last bits?
1. One option would be to lock myself away from society and all kinds of distractions for a week or two and start rebuilding my own value systems, purely from my own thinking and not from societies expectations and distractions.
2. Another option which is a longer route, is to go through my daily life and be very open-minded and curious, and start practicing one skill-set for a month or so then another kind of skill-set etc.
- Thinking what's important and who I want to be EVERY DAY
- Meditate EVERY NIGHT
Option 2 is the only option that suits me right now since I'm traveling around China!
Being a high value guy you have lots of responsibilities.
- You have to be extra in-tune with other peoples mood around you
- You have to be the one who leads the interaction forward
- You have to maintain an attitude of not showing off that you are of higher value but be empathic with people while leading
I've realized something. I'm much more high-value than I think I am. It's like I'm not being 100% sure that I am high-value but I know I'm pretty close. I just need to own it fully.
That's the reason why my interactions goes as they go because I'm still balancing around without a cement-like foundation. I've come to the point where I can go in an interaction and demand attention and look confident but I'm still having some counter-beliefs because of my value-system.
So how do I develop the last bits?
1. One option would be to lock myself away from society and all kinds of distractions for a week or two and start rebuilding my own value systems, purely from my own thinking and not from societies expectations and distractions.
2. Another option which is a longer route, is to go through my daily life and be very open-minded and curious, and start practicing one skill-set for a month or so then another kind of skill-set etc.
- Thinking what's important and who I want to be EVERY DAY
- Meditate EVERY NIGHT
Option 2 is the only option that suits me right now since I'm traveling around China!
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
