07-10-2013, 07:30 AM
a question for Shannon, I'm thinking about adding socializing is a fun game along side stage 3of Am 5 would this clash? I'm thinking of adding this to help me see socializing in a different light, I've tended to get a bit worked up about meeting people and socializing seeing it as more of a test of my abilities which makes me overly pressure myself, become too in my head, unable to relax, chill and just appreciate other people's company. I tend to get down on myself when I don't surpass my expectations of being socially adept etc. which in result causes me to overly criticize myself and lose esteem. what are your thoughts?
