07-06-2013, 06:23 PM
(07-06-2013, 01:55 PM)LionMonkey Wrote: LESSON: Do not do anything on the girls terms. It makes you seem like a lower value guy.
Well, I'd like to put my two cents in, despite being completely inexperienced, I do know what I would not want: And that is to follow a girl around when you supposedly know you've got other options. Why you do that? Why not forget about her and move on? Sometimes this will force her to think "wow, guess I was wrong about that guy" and she'll try to get back in touch with you (this has actually happened to me before) So leave the door open, but move on. Be polite, don't tell her you're letting her have space or anything, just move on. If she reconsiders she'll contact you, trust me. If not, then you can stop wasting your time.
Also, forget what makes you SEEM like a lower value guy or how you APPEAR. Forget it. This is one of my own biggest problems and it pisses me off. Do things for your own reasons, and how people view you is of no consequence. If she thinks you're low value or whatever, who cares?
Also, why you spending so much time on this? Seems to me like you're out at all hours of the night for crying out loud! If it were me (and what I'm working towards) I'd just go about my day and meet women as I go through it. Something will happen the more you stay on your own course and draft women into your own reality.
It's not that complicated, and if I had your confidence, I'm sure I'd be there already, I just don't know why you're playing the game. Make the girls play yours dude.
Anyhow, that's my advice to you and the hope I have for myself all in one. Peace.
