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DAY 1 - NIGHTTIME (FRIDAY)

A night of being less fun and more relaxed

I had some small doubts about going out tonight after I had dinner with my mom and brother. Eventually I decided to do it without a strong desire. I went to a popular rooftop bar called Migah. Entrance fee was 50¥ which is around 9$. I was already not in the mood for it and now I had to pay too. The upside was that the entrance girl was a smoking blonde, beautiful in a natural way.

Lots of people and freaking 25 celsius without wind!!

So I start out very chodish. Not in a social mood yet. Fighting through the crowd. I start talking to a tall guy standing beside.

Turns out to be a DJ that plays often in the bar and also the boyfriend of the girl at the entrance. Interesting. He offered to buy me something to drink and I accepted a bit hesitant. Cool dude.

Usually I'm completely sober when I go out but I thought that it would be fine with one beer and since it was free.

Alright, on to the girls! TIME 01:00AM

I've already got some "no thank you" from two groups of girls. Very rude of them and weird. I began to be more self-amused.

Standing at my space and saying hello! and waving to some girls who walked past but were ignored, even though I was pretty loud in my voice. Made me even more self-amused.

0. SET CALIFORNIAN GIRL

I see a cute brunette with bambi eyes and a dress. I said hello to her and she's open. We talked a bit about why I'm here in Beijing and what she does here.

Turns out she's a jewelry designer and she just got off from work so she wasn't dressed to the occasion, trying to qualify. I scanned her body and qualified her a bit, "it's fine".

She wanted to find her friend and I hesitated a bit thinking about taking her number and keep meeting new girls. She said, "you can come with me if you want"
me: "you know what. give me your number, I want to have a cup of coffee with you".
her: "okay, but not tomorrow. I got some appointments"
me: "yeah me too"
her: "but sometime next week"
me: "yeah sure"

LESSON: Be more qualifying and make her chase more, for the fun of it. Risk more. Or else it isn't fun or worth it

1. SET RUSSIAN GIRLS

Two girls were taking pictures of each other. I had in mind to make some fun out of it, so I got into the picture and made a retarded face. Had a bit laugh from it.

The tall hot one was very attentive and interested in listening to what I had to say while the other was ignorant. I found out they were Russians.

I think I said, "I need a date tonight" and they were like "It's a girls night" then I said, "Well I can be on a girls night too" (or something along those lines)

Led to nothing as they excused themselves because I couldn't lead the interaction. Still a bit rusty.

LESSON: Do no try to join their party. Make your own party.

2. SET FRENCH GIRLS

Two brunettes at the bar. One hot in black and one cute in red. Talked a bit French for as much as I know of the language just for the sake of the fun. The one in black was very distracted while the one in red was attentive and friendly.

I asked them how to say I love you in French after I told them how to do that in Danish. The one in black said, you don't say that, there's no word for it. Go figure it out yourself. I ignored it and bought my creative expression in front but when I look at it now, it is kinda amusing.

I still couldn't lead the interaction. The one in black eventually walked away to their group and her friend followed just a few seconds after with a "I'm sorry, I'm going to the group" (they were with a group of german guys). I put my hand on her lower back and said "it's okay". Because it was ok. She liked that.

LESSON: It's okay. You have to warm up before the more fun interactions can happen

3. SET WEIRD HOT TALL BRUNETTE

I see this stunning brunette at the bar by herself waiting to order. I tap her and begin to talk to her. She looked away a lot and she seemed like to me, was being friendly but rude at the same time. It was very weird. Like she was actively trying to not have chemistry with me.

So I decided to let this one go and not pursue it further (re-approach her) since I do not like no chemistry and none fun girls even if they are smoking hot.

LESSON: I saw her later standing with her hot friends in a circle and she noticed me. I had a gut-feeling that she wanted me to talk to her. To push it further, just go in to sets with hot girls without chemistry and see what might happen for the sake of fun and reference.

4. SET RE-APPROACH ON 2 FRENCH GIRLS

I saw them again at the bar talking to each other and I walked over. "Hello again. It's me again! Annoying me!"

Interestingly enough, this time the hot one in black was very open while the one in red was very distracted. (the one in red had decided to try to sleep with one of the german guys)

Talked some gibberish but was still not able to self-amuse myself fully without their feedback. Couldn't lead the interaction still.

Eventually they turned to face each other and got their drinks and I walked away.

LESSON: Keep talking and make them invest or give compliance to your presence by screening instead of only expressing and entertaining

5. SET TWO GERMAN BLONDES, JUST ARRIVED

Two minutes after I walked away from the French girls I saw these two blondes. One of them was a real stunner. I tapped her shoulder as they were walking past me and she stopped, "you are SO cute, I had to meet you"

She liked it and giggled.

Pulled her in a bit as we shook hands but she stood her ground, she was like, "We are going to get some drinks!"

"just two minutes!" taking her hand and pulling her in. Arm around her shoulder, "you are my girlfriend for tonight"

Giggles but her friend dragged her and she was also like, "We gotta get our drinks! We'll talk later!" as our hands disconnected.

LESSON: It was executed very well, like a natural. To push it further, go more sexual immediately so she stops thinking about anything. Do not be afraid to lose her.

6. SET RE-APPROACH TWO FRENCH GIRLS

THE TIME WAS NOW 02:20 AND I DECIDED TO GO HOME IN MINUTES, TO WAKE UP EARLY TOMORROW

This time the hot French girl in black was with a new, just arrived friend. I went over and said, how are you my sweetheart. Everything out of my mouth to her was with emotion. I engaged both of them. As I stood still for a while I told her that I'm actually going now.

her: "well.. hope Beijing is treating you well"

me: "actually.. what's your name again? (being very physical in a friendly way)

her: "xyz"

me: "xyz, what's your number, I want to have a cup of coffee with you"

her: (nah ah) "I don't give my number out to anybody..."

her: "I have a boyfriend" (meanwhile her friend was totally hating this moment and looking ignorant)

me: "that's okay"

her: (surprised expression)

me: "I'm not looking for a girlfriend either"

her: (like her mind reversed or something)

me: "do you have email?"

her: "yeah"

Her putting her email in my phone. To engage the friend I asked her, "do you think she'll respond?" actually I often said to her friend how lovely she is etc. while she just ignored me.

her friend: "you don't even had her name? have you just met her?"

me: "no I've met her three times already"

her friend: "but you can't remember her name"

I ignored it. I said goodbye to the french girl with hug and a kiss on each cheek and then I wanted to do the same with her friend but she avoided and me and my girl looked at each other with an odd expression like, weird...

LESSON: A girls resistance is only to be broken by a vibe of non-neediness, persistency and the right choice of words. Re-approaching same girls also makes you seem like a person they know and they are easier to open up

I DECIDED TO FIND THE STUNNING BLONDE AND GET HER NUMBER BEFORE I WOULD LEAVE

7. SET TALL FRENCH GIRL

In the middle of the crowd of steaming air I noticed a tall brunette girl by herself. I tapped her shoulder and said, "you are tall!" and she's like, "I know! I cannot help it! I also have high heels on".

I asked where she's from, "France"
She asked where I was from, "Heaven... yeah it's a beautiful place.."

her: "I have to get to the bathroom"

She was friendly. The interaction wasn't that fun.

LESSON: Sometimes it's just more efficient to have a normal conversation when the girl is open and not challenging.


8. SET RE-APPROACH TWO BLONDE GIRLS

I was looking for them for a few minutes. I saw them surrounded by people at the bar, waiting for their drinks.

So I waited for the right timing. They eventually took a seat and I joined them.

stunner: "ohh hey! it's you again"

me: "what's up girls. I'm actually going soon"

we talked a bit about why we were here in Beijing and where we were from. The stunner was German. EVERYBODY WAS GERMAN lol.

Her friend made fun of being a stripper and not telling me what they were doing there.
That was after I had told them my truth, where I was from, so I changed it to, "actually I just go a stripper-job yesterday night. I'm going to work tomorrow night"

her friend, "so we got many things in common!"

me, "yeah, don't you hate when people touch you while you are working on the scene?"

the stunner interrupted, "no seriously where are you from?" (I've already said that but it seems like she needs to be baited to want to sincerely know that)

me, "Copenhagen"

her, "okay" in a blasé

she looked attentive now.

then she noticed some of her Chinese friends. So they had their girl greetings and it was time to go. Her friends were seated besides her now.

me, "I have to go"

her, "Really? Ohh well.. hope you enjoy Beijing"

me, "I want to see you again"

her, "I'm right here"

me, "I have to go, I have to get up early tomorrow"

me, "Actually give me your number, I want to have a cup of coffee with you"

her, "Okay."

Finding her phone and giving her number.

me, "You can't remember you number?"

her, "Yeah.. I know.. it's because of all the fun"

me, "I like that"

Gave all the three of them a high-five before I left.

She was a real stunner. Seemed like a girl who didn't take much responsibility of her "fun" actions at all.

LESSON: Push it more maybe. Go for the lay even though odds were against you