(07-04-2013, 05:41 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(07-04-2013, 08:21 AM)Shannon Wrote: Casually disregard another's committed relationship at your own peril, my friend. I know most husbands won't take too kindly to it. And things do get found out.
I appreciate the warning Shannon, but I'm not going to rape wives. I'm talking about two adults having consensual sex. I know sex is not love (love is a chemical reaction in the brain brought about by various things).
Just as I plan to use condoms to protect myself, I also plan to be discreet to protect myself and everyone else. Heck, just the other day some guy almost came after me because I looked at his girl. I'm aware of how volatile this can be. All the more reason to develop my covert skills.
I would say that the chemistry you refer to is not love, but how the brain translates the emotion into the physical world. Thinking that emotions are chemical reactions is going to lead you down the path to disregarding their validity in and of themselves, which is also very dangerous and potentially destructive.
I would also say that when you do things the right way, you don't have to sneak around behind people's backs to do it. But I suspect you are going to have to learn that the hard way. Just like I did.
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