06-18-2013, 08:10 AM
If you get where I am, you won't be worried about PUA gurus or what they say. Most of us who have run the course (so to speak) have separated ourselves from the pickup community. Yes, it takes "inner game" to get the girls, but the "inner game" it takes is really not game at all. That implies it's an act, or nor solid or serious. What it actually is, is a state of being in which you are so solid within yourself that the world naturally and automatically becomes your oyster, and women will either respond or they won't (as always). But the difference is, because you'll have the confidence and leadership and drive and boldness down so well that it is thoughtlessly automatic (because it actually is your authentic deepest genuine self at that point), they will respond even if they don't understand why or don't want to. And when that starts happening, if you understand how women communicate and their psychology, you can pretty much do whatever you want with them. Of course you have limits; not every personality type will respond the same to you, nor even very well. But at least one will. And at that point, you just work with the ones you trigger, and let the rest fall away, and you'll be getting results that amaze you and everyone around you. But it requires self mastery and a very good understanding of how women communicate and their psychology.
Naturally, every man has his own particular areas of skill, strength and weakness. Women who I can seduce without effort, might run screaming from one of my friends if he did exactly the same thing. Likewise, women a friend of mine can seduce without trying might laugh at me for trying the same thing. Understanding that each person will only be responded to well by compatible others, and not so well by the rest, takes the pressure off to be good with every woman. Another important factor is just not caring, because you can and do support yourself internally, and don't need someone else to do that, which kills neediness, and that is very attractive to women also. These programs can definitely help a lot with that. Years ago, maybe 8-10 back, I used to be beta as hell, needy as hell, socially clueless and "anxiety" did not begin to describe my social response. It got so bad at one point that I didn't leave my house for months, and even my bedroom was hard to leave at times, just to deal with my roommate back then. Going to work was torture, going to school was an exercise in futility because if I was even a second late I could not bring myself to open the classroom door. It actually killed my career as a computer programmer because I missed so many classes that way.
Now I am completely free, the world is my oyster and I have unlimited options for success and women. It didn't happen overnight, to be sure, but these subliminals have a very large part to play in my radical improvement. And if I can do it, anyone can do it. It just takes the determination to do so, the willingness to do what it takes, and the persistence to actually get there.
And in the end, you walk into a bar and sit down and you can appreciate any woman there, regardless of her physical looks, and you can see every woman for what she really is, also regardless of her looks. When you can sit down with a 10 on your left and a 5 on your right and spend the evening getting to know each one and then consciously decide that tonight, you want X and you're going to bed the 10 or the 5 because that is where X leads, not because one is a 10, then you'll realize that pickup is behind you. And when you can see a 10 and really not care whether or not she's interested, or that she's even there... it feels pretty awesome, because it's freedom. And that's when they start hunting you.
Naturally, every man has his own particular areas of skill, strength and weakness. Women who I can seduce without effort, might run screaming from one of my friends if he did exactly the same thing. Likewise, women a friend of mine can seduce without trying might laugh at me for trying the same thing. Understanding that each person will only be responded to well by compatible others, and not so well by the rest, takes the pressure off to be good with every woman. Another important factor is just not caring, because you can and do support yourself internally, and don't need someone else to do that, which kills neediness, and that is very attractive to women also. These programs can definitely help a lot with that. Years ago, maybe 8-10 back, I used to be beta as hell, needy as hell, socially clueless and "anxiety" did not begin to describe my social response. It got so bad at one point that I didn't leave my house for months, and even my bedroom was hard to leave at times, just to deal with my roommate back then. Going to work was torture, going to school was an exercise in futility because if I was even a second late I could not bring myself to open the classroom door. It actually killed my career as a computer programmer because I missed so many classes that way.
Now I am completely free, the world is my oyster and I have unlimited options for success and women. It didn't happen overnight, to be sure, but these subliminals have a very large part to play in my radical improvement. And if I can do it, anyone can do it. It just takes the determination to do so, the willingness to do what it takes, and the persistence to actually get there.
And in the end, you walk into a bar and sit down and you can appreciate any woman there, regardless of her physical looks, and you can see every woman for what she really is, also regardless of her looks. When you can sit down with a 10 on your left and a 5 on your right and spend the evening getting to know each one and then consciously decide that tonight, you want X and you're going to bed the 10 or the 5 because that is where X leads, not because one is a 10, then you'll realize that pickup is behind you. And when you can see a 10 and really not care whether or not she's interested, or that she's even there... it feels pretty awesome, because it's freedom. And that's when they start hunting you.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!