06-14-2013, 07:39 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-14-2013, 07:45 PM by LionMonkey.)
Well, let me put it this way: assumptions and thoughts are just that. If you really are "being yourself" you won't need to ask what to do or how to do it.
You'll know what you want when you see it and you'll be drawn towards it without second thoughts. Once you are there the only thing you can do is to let yourself shine through with your intent and creativity in the moment.
The down the liner episode was an interesting experience. I must say I have learned many valuable lessons from these kinds of nights.
It's really about taking what you want without second thought. Once you are in there you empathize with the girl and escalate/lead it.
I'm talking about bars and nightclubs here. Not workplaces!
But yeah, having the desire when you see the girl and with passion, "she's mine!" and then go for it without hesitation.
A good word for an asshole mixture? A scroundel!
EDIT: do not put an identity on yourself that makes your ego fragile so you are afraid of making mistakes because girls tell you those things. Essentially you shouldn't put much thought or focus on people's opinion on you but your own. That's all that matters if you have your own sets of values...
You'll know what you want when you see it and you'll be drawn towards it without second thoughts. Once you are there the only thing you can do is to let yourself shine through with your intent and creativity in the moment.
The down the liner episode was an interesting experience. I must say I have learned many valuable lessons from these kinds of nights.
It's really about taking what you want without second thought. Once you are in there you empathize with the girl and escalate/lead it.
I'm talking about bars and nightclubs here. Not workplaces!
But yeah, having the desire when you see the girl and with passion, "she's mine!" and then go for it without hesitation.
A good word for an asshole mixture? A scroundel!
EDIT: do not put an identity on yourself that makes your ego fragile so you are afraid of making mistakes because girls tell you those things. Essentially you shouldn't put much thought or focus on people's opinion on you but your own. That's all that matters if you have your own sets of values...
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
