06-02-2013, 06:29 PM
Agreed ^^
I've talked about this for a long ass time on my blog. The reason why guys use pick-up lines is because they are completely 'acting' instead of being. A lot of guys won't put the time and effort into themselves to make real NATURAL change and instead rely on a quick fix.
Pick-up artists are pretty much those who study guys who already have the mindset of Woman Magnet, sex Magnet & Alpha Male, take notes and then go out and do the same exact thing they are doing but simplifying it into a how-to / list of directions that you have to follow.
For instance, if I go out and I make a random crack at a woman then start seducing her, these guys may watch and be like "first he said this...", "then he did this", "he ended up with this and ended up in bed with her". But, realistically, I am just letting all things unfold naturally without even thinking about it.
What they don't realize, however, is that underneath, if you do not have the right intentions, you may never get what it is you really want.
There is nothing to learn about being cocky & funny, seducing, or playing hard to get. You can teach it, but if the person doing so isn't actually genuinely cocky & funny, seductive or high value/hard to get, he will never be portraying himself accurately. Fortunately, with the mindset you will automatically do these things, look back and realize "Hey I did that pick-up technique these guys suggest without even knowing shit about it"
The best thing you can do for yourself right now is STOP READING BOOKS ON HOW TO GET WOMEN, SEDUCE THEM, OR MAKE THEM LIKE YOU.
Instead, I always preferred books on psychology of the way women & others think, body language stuff, living in the moment, books on success.
I've talked about this for a long ass time on my blog. The reason why guys use pick-up lines is because they are completely 'acting' instead of being. A lot of guys won't put the time and effort into themselves to make real NATURAL change and instead rely on a quick fix.
Pick-up artists are pretty much those who study guys who already have the mindset of Woman Magnet, sex Magnet & Alpha Male, take notes and then go out and do the same exact thing they are doing but simplifying it into a how-to / list of directions that you have to follow.
For instance, if I go out and I make a random crack at a woman then start seducing her, these guys may watch and be like "first he said this...", "then he did this", "he ended up with this and ended up in bed with her". But, realistically, I am just letting all things unfold naturally without even thinking about it.
What they don't realize, however, is that underneath, if you do not have the right intentions, you may never get what it is you really want.
There is nothing to learn about being cocky & funny, seducing, or playing hard to get. You can teach it, but if the person doing so isn't actually genuinely cocky & funny, seductive or high value/hard to get, he will never be portraying himself accurately. Fortunately, with the mindset you will automatically do these things, look back and realize "Hey I did that pick-up technique these guys suggest without even knowing shit about it"
The best thing you can do for yourself right now is STOP READING BOOKS ON HOW TO GET WOMEN, SEDUCE THEM, OR MAKE THEM LIKE YOU.
Instead, I always preferred books on psychology of the way women & others think, body language stuff, living in the moment, books on success.
