05-20-2013, 09:58 AM
I just finished stage 1 of WM2.0
Here's what I gathered from this stage, and keep in mind it's only what I have felt and experienced.
I've become much busier in my life. Recently I've started my second massage job at a small practice nearby my house. Will be paying much better than my current one.
I have been going to the gym fairly regularly and meeting my friends there as well. Some times I do not see them for a while, and then they ask what I have been up to with my life. I tell them, and their response is "wow you sound really busy." I would agree with that, I have been getting very busy.
I do not make time out to "hunt" for women. If woman magnet attracts women to me, then I figure as long as I am out there, women will come to me. Being super busy, eventually one of those things will be events with women at them.
In my last post, I said I was at a party. That was quite a time ago. And a few posts ago, I asked how do I become more social and outgoing. I think I've figured part of it out for myself. Which is simply to look at people, and when they look back at me I say hi. I'll leave it up to them if they want to continue. People generally are pretty clear when they indicate they are not interested in speaking with you. I believe this is the biggest discovery for myself during this stage.
And in terms of personal life currently, I had split up with my EX. I'm still split up with her but we remain friends. We are trying FWB but now I am regretting opening that door again. Time to close it again. I notice when I did that, I am closing myself off to other opportunities to meeting new people by hanging onto sex with her.
Here's what I gathered from this stage, and keep in mind it's only what I have felt and experienced.
I've become much busier in my life. Recently I've started my second massage job at a small practice nearby my house. Will be paying much better than my current one.
I have been going to the gym fairly regularly and meeting my friends there as well. Some times I do not see them for a while, and then they ask what I have been up to with my life. I tell them, and their response is "wow you sound really busy." I would agree with that, I have been getting very busy.
I do not make time out to "hunt" for women. If woman magnet attracts women to me, then I figure as long as I am out there, women will come to me. Being super busy, eventually one of those things will be events with women at them.
In my last post, I said I was at a party. That was quite a time ago. And a few posts ago, I asked how do I become more social and outgoing. I think I've figured part of it out for myself. Which is simply to look at people, and when they look back at me I say hi. I'll leave it up to them if they want to continue. People generally are pretty clear when they indicate they are not interested in speaking with you. I believe this is the biggest discovery for myself during this stage.
And in terms of personal life currently, I had split up with my EX. I'm still split up with her but we remain friends. We are trying FWB but now I am regretting opening that door again. Time to close it again. I notice when I did that, I am closing myself off to other opportunities to meeting new people by hanging onto sex with her.
