05-14-2013, 05:57 AM
(05-06-2013, 09:54 AM)Shannon Wrote: There are no guarantees in life. I have seen people both prove and disprove the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." I have seen people come out of prison much worse criminals than they were when they went in, and I have seen it happen that people were permanently and completely reformed when they came out of prison. I have seen good girls go bad, and bad girls go good. I have seen normally faithful wives cheat, an cheaters become faithful. There are no guarantees in life, and the only thing you can do is try to balance your trust with reasonable caution. Too much of either is bad.
It's immature of me to judge her because of her past. Balance trust with reasonable caution, I hope I got that right.
(05-06-2013, 09:54 AM)Shannon Wrote: Also, worrying about how you compare to other guys is useless. A woman who chooses to be with you is not with you because you are inferior. Don't waste your opportunities to enjoy yourself, or her, because you are worried that maybe you aren't as good as so-and-so. You aren't so-and-so. And she's not with him; she's with you. Let her enjoy your company too. Relax and just be yourself.
A good woman can be opened up to, and shared with of your insecurities and she will help you overcome them - but nobody is going to want to constantly try to fight your insecurities over and over. OGSF is going to help a lot, and there will be other things necessary to do as well.
Slowly I am getting more and more relax when I'm getting intimate with her. I am also kind of enjoying it more. I do hope this continues.
Other than this, we also have a few small disagreements on some matters. I believe this is just normal thing as they said. On this occasions I was the one who acted like a prick. It's a good thing she forgives me and I forgive her as well. We both open up ourselves and talk about each other. I am happy that our relationship is great. I can't take you guys enough for giving me advice every step of the way.
Anyway, as I am listening to OGSF, I experience a somewhat clear and kind of negative dream. It happened like I was eating out with my friends. Then came the pizza. When it arrived everyone got a piece of it and I got late so there was no more pizza left for me. I got mad at the guys who took a piece and when I look at them they were the guys whom I am a bit pissed of back in high school. Then one of them offered me his piece which he already bite on. I got angrier and wanted to hit someone. I can't remember anything anymore after that. I feel I already woke up after that. This can be a good indication that my subconscious is already being affected by the subliminal or not?
"Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent."
