05-01-2013, 01:46 PM
Sometimes I'm extremely comfortable meeting and talking with girls.
Other times I feel like I have to prove to myself that I can just go over and be comfortable talking with the group and many times I don't do it because I want to have a reason to do it.
Honestly most of the times where it has went best are the times I did not try to find a reason to do it (and by "reason" I mean as a feeling of desire in me that draws me to do it) it has been random approaches and random people positioned near me.
Hmm.. maybe cultivate more decisiveness and more intent....
Other times I feel like I have to prove to myself that I can just go over and be comfortable talking with the group and many times I don't do it because I want to have a reason to do it.
Honestly most of the times where it has went best are the times I did not try to find a reason to do it (and by "reason" I mean as a feeling of desire in me that draws me to do it) it has been random approaches and random people positioned near me.
Hmm.. maybe cultivate more decisiveness and more intent....
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
