WM should handle that, and the fact that you're in these situations and looking for that answer tells me it's working. Which stage are you on now?
But as for outside help, Basically what I did to overcome that was I started going to a specific bar on a regular basis. I'm not a bar person either, and I don't smoke or drink alcohol at all. When I go to a bar, it's to eat, socialize, and depending on where I go, pretend I know how to play pool.
You don't have to talk to anyone, just sit and enjoy yourself as you are comfortable, and get to know who the other regulars are. Over time, you'll become one of the regulars, and things will begin to evolve from there. Or if you want to be more direct about it, once you have identified the regulars, start asking them questions and go from there.
But as for outside help, Basically what I did to overcome that was I started going to a specific bar on a regular basis. I'm not a bar person either, and I don't smoke or drink alcohol at all. When I go to a bar, it's to eat, socialize, and depending on where I go, pretend I know how to play pool.
You don't have to talk to anyone, just sit and enjoy yourself as you are comfortable, and get to know who the other regulars are. Over time, you'll become one of the regulars, and things will begin to evolve from there. Or if you want to be more direct about it, once you have identified the regulars, start asking them questions and go from there.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
