04-21-2013, 05:54 PM
Generally, AM 5.0 will strongly focus you inwardly and on becoming aware of what is versus what should be in terms of being treated well, given the respect you deserve, deserving respect, and disconnecting from worrying about what others think. In other words, if you respond to it the way most people do, you won't care what they think or whether they accept you, because you will understand that you do not need their permission to be awesome or their validation to know that you are awesome being yourself!
Once you genuinely understand that being yourself to the fullest is how you are true to yourself, and you are secure in yourself, you turn the tables and what others think holds little to no value because you are the one making the decision as to what you think of yourself. When you are worried about what others think, or how they will respond, you are coming from a place of insecurity and seeking validation from others, instead of self generating it. That is what triggers that anxiety and concern; but once you are your own source of validation and you are your own source of what you think of yourself, you can listen to what others think, but you understand that what they think is their opinion, and their opinion is not going to influence you in what value you have chosen to give yourself, or what level of validity you give yourself.
The Alpha is a leader of himself first and foremost; he does as he pleases because he does not concern himself with what others think of him, his choices, his words or his actions. He instead validates himself and gives himself value. Others may agree or disagree, but that is not of his concern, because they are not his source of these things. He is. (Same for Alpha females.)
Once you genuinely understand that being yourself to the fullest is how you are true to yourself, and you are secure in yourself, you turn the tables and what others think holds little to no value because you are the one making the decision as to what you think of yourself. When you are worried about what others think, or how they will respond, you are coming from a place of insecurity and seeking validation from others, instead of self generating it. That is what triggers that anxiety and concern; but once you are your own source of validation and you are your own source of what you think of yourself, you can listen to what others think, but you understand that what they think is their opinion, and their opinion is not going to influence you in what value you have chosen to give yourself, or what level of validity you give yourself.
The Alpha is a leader of himself first and foremost; he does as he pleases because he does not concern himself with what others think of him, his choices, his words or his actions. He instead validates himself and gives himself value. Others may agree or disagree, but that is not of his concern, because they are not his source of these things. He is. (Same for Alpha females.)
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
