Sounds like you're doing just fine, experimenting with what works for you. The whole dynamic nowadays in dating is a tricky one. That look that Zan gives women is really all you need to know, but it takes a long time to learn or should I say un-learn everything you thought you knew about the dynamics between men and women. In todays world of constant text messaging, facebook updating and instagram, hardly anyone ever slows down and connects with one another. Women yearn for a genuine connection more than anything.
I read a story and you can find it here, about an old woman who pined over a man she spent one night with in college for the next fifty years. THAT is how powerful that connection is and I speak from experience on that one. I've had one occasion where a girl called me for years, thought I can't think of maybe one occasion where I called her. Even after she got married (and eventually divorced).
There was another occasion where a girl said I ruined her for all other men and I had never even so much as kissed her.
That connection is like a magic spell. It's the only thing you ever need to learn...well that and to know how to deliver with some bedroom skills to show that actually ARE the real deal. Zan is a master of that, I know it, but he is terrible at teaching it...not his fault, but it's a hard thing to convey, like talking to a blind man about colors. I bought his dvd series years ago and though he's somewhat of an inspirational speaker, he doesn't do a fantastic job of teaching you how to be like him.
That powerful aura of charisma comes from knowing yourself, having a strong center and a joy for life. It doesn't really have a damn thing to do with women and when you can learn to disconnect from ever needing them, then you can really connect with them when you're around them. They'll feel like they're on somewhat of a pedestal in your gaze, but also that you're on a damn high pedestal as well and them being on the pedestal in the first place is the result of getting the attention of a man such as you.
I know I'm kind of long winded on this subject, but you reminded me how much it fascinates me. So thank you for that.
I read a story and you can find it here, about an old woman who pined over a man she spent one night with in college for the next fifty years. THAT is how powerful that connection is and I speak from experience on that one. I've had one occasion where a girl called me for years, thought I can't think of maybe one occasion where I called her. Even after she got married (and eventually divorced).
There was another occasion where a girl said I ruined her for all other men and I had never even so much as kissed her.
That connection is like a magic spell. It's the only thing you ever need to learn...well that and to know how to deliver with some bedroom skills to show that actually ARE the real deal. Zan is a master of that, I know it, but he is terrible at teaching it...not his fault, but it's a hard thing to convey, like talking to a blind man about colors. I bought his dvd series years ago and though he's somewhat of an inspirational speaker, he doesn't do a fantastic job of teaching you how to be like him.
That powerful aura of charisma comes from knowing yourself, having a strong center and a joy for life. It doesn't really have a damn thing to do with women and when you can learn to disconnect from ever needing them, then you can really connect with them when you're around them. They'll feel like they're on somewhat of a pedestal in your gaze, but also that you're on a damn high pedestal as well and them being on the pedestal in the first place is the result of getting the attention of a man such as you.
I know I'm kind of long winded on this subject, but you reminded me how much it fascinates me. So thank you for that.
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