Overcome Fear, Guilt, and Shame

[mat422]

Yeah body language is pretty important for understanding cues. But I used to study that stuff, it just got me caught up in my head more. Here's my theory anyway. All those body language studying tips are valuable, but they miss the point. Body language is usually the result of subconscious thoughts or feelings, that means that these things will also register in your own subconscious mind when you see them from someone else. An example would be walking by a shady character, maybe you feel uneasy but you can't put your finger on why. That's just your subconscious reading him and giving you feedback on a deeper level. I think guys actually need to be less in their heads and more in tune with their gut feelings when it comes to interactions. But that could be because I'm more of a "feeler". Whereas some guys may be more visual. It's all about understanding how you operate and going from there. I think doubt is something that can screw with that intuitive feeling. To me a natural with women is someone that trusts their impulses and has the confidence to take action on them. But I always just say use what works for you, everyone is different.

Definitely a win win. But remember that looks are only so much. You may think these are your types of girls, but they could be hiding something underneath that beautiful exterior. Of course you probably know all about that.

I'll list what subs I've done. I've done disconnect from negativity within 3G, remove negativity within 4G, ASC 4G, ASC 5G, Alpha male 2011 twice, Overcome fear for about 2 months, and now I'm listening to overcome guilt shame and fear which has been about 3 months? I think, not too sure. All of these things combined have helped me grow as a person, not just the anxiety. But yeah, the anxiety was helped a lot from these subs. I think some people who use these subs see them as a bonus or addition to their life. I can honestly say I needed them. Without any of these I really don't know where I would be. Despite still feeling like I'm dealing with these problems, it's a lot better than how I used to be. It's slow and gradual change, but it's there. I don't want to say that I'm different than everyone else, but I've got a lot of stuff that needs to be worked out.

Never really considered the approach anxiety sub. Seems interesting, but women are the furthest thing from my mind right now haha. I'll keep it in my mind.

You got a point of course, if you're focused on just life there would be no reason to use alpha male body language around people. No one to impress anyway lol.
But its like this, at first you study the body language, then you apply it one by one, and eventually you do it subconsciously and you need not worry about it. At first it will be tough, but it gets easier.
But like you said, if you're not trying to impress the ladies then theres no need. I still have to get use to the fact that not everyone on this site is after the girls lol.
See naturals have the ability to get girls easier. The rest of us have to learn those techniques from them. There are alpha male naturals and there are normal naturals. The Naturals shine during conversation and the approach. The Alpha Male naturals are different, they have this magnetism that draws everyone to them, not just girls. They look like they own the place when they are walking by, or even sitting at the bar. And THAT is exactly what is good to teach yourself, the ability to look like you are better than anyone there, without looking like you are trying. Movie star status, famous person status, someone important status, while being just you. Cant get much better than that

Looks like you did do some subs haha. I see your point, and im glad they helped you. You're right about the bonus thing, but the confidence sub, this sub that im on right now, if i didnt discover this sub and use it, i would still be the person who felt very uneasy to talk to anyone, even family. There was this deep feeling of unrest every time i talked to anyone. Made me just want to stay at home and not go out, and if i did i hated talking to people, even friends, but i had to do it and make it seem enjoyable because no one likes a quiet person. I can happily say now that the feeling of unrest during conversation is completely gone, 21 days into Asc! I still dont WANT to talk to people all the time, but there have definitely been occasions where i actually wanted to talk to the same person again after we just finished conversation. And thats a big step for me. In the end i want to love talking to people, that would help at work, at home, and the bonus is it would help with the ladies.
Hopefully the Anxiety sub will help some more. But for now i continue with Asc to make it permanent.
What are you doing overcome fear for exactly? Hows that been going for the past few days?

What is your goal in life right now bro?

Don't get me wrong I'd like some women in my life. But as of right now I feel like it would be more of a distraction. I'm trying to really build myself up more and get my life sorted out.

If you haven't run through alpha yet you'll pretty much give off that magnetic vibe. There's definitely a huge difference between learning about how an alpha male behaves and looks vs being that alpha male and doing it all automatically. It's actually been a while since I ran alpha male, but when I felt that, it's really empowering to know on a subconscious level.

Wow, you made some huge improvements with that sub. I'm kind of jealous haha. I don't know if you've heard Shannon talk about resistance and stuff, but I tend to be highly resistant to subliminals, so change comes a bit slower for me. But man, 21 days and you feel that good is great.

I'm using the overcome fear sub to just overcome fear I guess haha. It's like an invisible barrier that keeps me in place. For some reason pushing past my boundaries or comfort zone never resulted in changes for me. Sometimes it even made things worse. So I'm trying to destroy that fear inside of me so I can actually live my life. It's definitely been rough with this sub, but I feel like I'm moving away from the fear more and more.

My career aspirations are on hold. I'm just trying to find any sort of job to support myself and move on from there. I'm a bit of a wandering soul, not really knowing where to go in life and just searching for some answers. I've just had a lot on my mind so it's been overwhelming and I feel like some of my judgement has been clouded. I guess my goal is more self growth because from there I find that a lot more paths open up in my own life that I couldn't see before. Sorry for the vague answer haha, but I'm not exactly sure of my path in life.