03-31-2013, 05:12 PM
Yesterday I saw the movie, "Dead Man" starring Johnny Depp and I think it is a great example of the "lonely" subject.
Another thing about doing things for your own reasons, I was with a new friend of mine who also goes out a lot. He mention women as bitches and he is very direct to a point I think it is too much and not me at all but I'm always open for experienced, risk-taking and edgy guys to expand my horizon.
He gets a lot of one night stands and it is with above average looking girls.
I was with him earlier today for the first time for "real" and I fell in the trap of being the 3rd wheel.
I was very devaluing my true self and I just stood there not doing anything that I really wanted. I felt very uncomfortable and I when I'm in that state I know that if I went over to some people to talk to them, I would only take value and I would be pretty needy.
So I decided to go. As I walked out of the big super arena I suddenly felt much better. My sense of value of myself just sky-rocketed.
At the busstop and in the bus I noticed a lot of girls looking lingering when we hit eye contact.
So all in all, doing things for your own purposes and reasons and not compromise it for anyone ever!
I think that is what sets us free as men...
Another thing about doing things for your own reasons, I was with a new friend of mine who also goes out a lot. He mention women as bitches and he is very direct to a point I think it is too much and not me at all but I'm always open for experienced, risk-taking and edgy guys to expand my horizon.
He gets a lot of one night stands and it is with above average looking girls.
I was with him earlier today for the first time for "real" and I fell in the trap of being the 3rd wheel.
I was very devaluing my true self and I just stood there not doing anything that I really wanted. I felt very uncomfortable and I when I'm in that state I know that if I went over to some people to talk to them, I would only take value and I would be pretty needy.
So I decided to go. As I walked out of the big super arena I suddenly felt much better. My sense of value of myself just sky-rocketed.
At the busstop and in the bus I noticed a lot of girls looking lingering when we hit eye contact.
So all in all, doing things for your own purposes and reasons and not compromise it for anyone ever!
I think that is what sets us free as men...
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
