03-25-2013, 06:41 PM
I have easter vacation this week and I'm going out every night for a couple of hours to meet women and explore fun. Not "getting laid", that doesn't strife my mind. It makes it so much more fun to go out and I have only been the observer very little since. I have a really strong control over my "state" because of not thinking about getting laid.
Since my lightbulb I've had girls so willingly want to be with me but they don't show it. It's very, very subtle. They also communicate that they REALLY want me to lead them.
Just earlier tonight I met two group of girls. One of them asked me to come with them to another bar but I stayed with the other group. Eventually the place closed and they went happily with me to the other bar while all the other girls in the bar looked over and thought, "who is this guy?"
It's a very proactive style because you are the man who makes things happen and it takes a lot of energy! but it's a such great skill to improve.
Why? because when you are the man who makes things happen and don't want anything in return, people comes to you for a good time, especially women
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It also develops your skills as a great leader for sure...
The thing I'm curious about is that when you are bringing all this value without being a threat (or much of a threat) I tend to have my balance (focus point) come up to my chest and up to my head rather than having it stay low where it's sexy and controlled.
It's something I have noticed when I am very lively and talk loudly because of the music.
Can anyone relate? Suggestions?
Since my lightbulb I've had girls so willingly want to be with me but they don't show it. It's very, very subtle. They also communicate that they REALLY want me to lead them.
Just earlier tonight I met two group of girls. One of them asked me to come with them to another bar but I stayed with the other group. Eventually the place closed and they went happily with me to the other bar while all the other girls in the bar looked over and thought, "who is this guy?"
It's a very proactive style because you are the man who makes things happen and it takes a lot of energy! but it's a such great skill to improve.
Why? because when you are the man who makes things happen and don't want anything in return, people comes to you for a good time, especially women
...It also develops your skills as a great leader for sure...
The thing I'm curious about is that when you are bringing all this value without being a threat (or much of a threat
) I tend to have my balance (focus point) come up to my chest and up to my head rather than having it stay low where it's sexy and controlled. It's something I have noticed when I am very lively and talk loudly because of the music.
Can anyone relate? Suggestions?
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
