02-27-2013, 05:59 AM
I like what you are saying Rainbow.
She's giving you a punch and you deflect it and suddenly you are on the same team, nice
Shannon, that was a lot! Thanks though. I can clearly see what you are saying.
Haha, I really like how you take it to a level of extreme observation and darwinistic
it's great, good stuff...
To elaborate a bit:
The dance-floor was definitely not a place to talk and that's why I did what I did. I did not look for any signs of interest before I would dance over.
My mind was like, "no logic, no logic, fun fun fun" so my "method" to keep my energy up was just doing stuff all the time, without having the time to think. Mostly noticing how my energy was in my body.
Like, I was standing in the smoking area with my buddy and two girls came and smoked. I thought of fun.. so I said,
"You know smoking is bad!"
"hehe we know"
"BAD!"
"..."
"BAAAAD!"
The more attractive one looked at me lingering. The less didn't know what to do
I guess focusing on making my actions determine how I wanted to feel and how I wanted to influence, made me too uncalibrated to the girls responses?
Hmm..
Also thinking about the social status thing has never really been a focus I've had. I have always been more concerned with how I felt.
Very interesting...
I see that I just have to be a bit more passive and stop keep fueling my fun from my actions with the outside world. Just more laid-back on nights as these.. lol...
She's giving you a punch and you deflect it and suddenly you are on the same team, nice
Shannon, that was a lot! Thanks though. I can clearly see what you are saying.
Haha, I really like how you take it to a level of extreme observation and darwinistic
it's great, good stuff...To elaborate a bit:
The dance-floor was definitely not a place to talk and that's why I did what I did. I did not look for any signs of interest before I would dance over.
My mind was like, "no logic, no logic, fun fun fun" so my "method" to keep my energy up was just doing stuff all the time, without having the time to think. Mostly noticing how my energy was in my body.
Like, I was standing in the smoking area with my buddy and two girls came and smoked. I thought of fun.. so I said,
"You know smoking is bad!"
"hehe we know"
"BAD!"
"..."
"BAAAAD!"
The more attractive one looked at me lingering. The less didn't know what to do
I guess focusing on making my actions determine how I wanted to feel and how I wanted to influence, made me too uncalibrated to the girls responses?
Hmm..
Also thinking about the social status thing has never really been a focus I've had. I have always been more concerned with how I felt.
Very interesting...
I see that I just have to be a bit more passive and stop keep fueling my fun from my actions with the outside world. Just more laid-back on nights as these.. lol...
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
