(08-17-2010, 10:15 AM)WildFlower Wrote: This is true liberation. Aloofness for the win. For me, my point of detachment was to do with drama. Drama has a way of sucking people in like a vortex of energy. I was totally blinded to the amount of ugliness this kind of drama creates and how utterly unappealing, almost disgusting, I now find this kind of childish, manipulative, slimy behaviour that I previously simply could not see. Flaws in women I used to be very, very attracted to just popped out at me, and this killed all the attraction dead and left it in the past. Meanwhile I looked towards the future.
You are responding to Stage 1 in the exact same manor I did: aloofness towards women, seeing my dad in a different manor (this changed again later on), independence in general. This makes me think you are going to see very similar changes to the changes I saw right the way through the set.
You know Wildflower it's funny, because right before I read your response I was thinking to myself "I feel so 'aloof'".
