LionMonkey is a WM 5G

[Shannon]

In your situation, LM, I would probably let her go unless you want to make her your girlfriend. But if you are interested in being serious with her, persistence is your only option. You have to repair the damage you've done. To do that you have to start by recognizing what you did wrong, letting her know what you recognize was a mistake, and communicating that and a sincere apology. Then you have to let her know you want to be more than friends/lovers. All this involves skill you almost certainly do not yet have. So unless this is a threat for you to have your reputation destroyed, I would probably either just leave her alone, or let her know you realized how what you did made her feel, and apologize before leaving her alone.

Remember that every woman you have sex with WILL tell other women about it. And if you get a reputation for selfishness or being a bad lover... well, it's no soup for you with any woman she tells.

You must be careful and consider her point of view in all this as well, my friend. Unless she wants to be treated like fuck meat... be considerate of her.