12-05-2012, 02:03 PM
That is where persistence is key. Even though she said "stop contacting me" she also made it sound like she wants you to come make her feel better and comfortable about it all. I would have been a little more calm, confident, and persistent with it if you really wanted to see her, kinda like making it seem like you understand her but like she is somewhat afraid for no real reason. Instead of dismissing it and saying "ok bye". It's a good skill to learn.
"Wont you please stop contacting me? As said, I want to forget it all and it is a bit difficult when you keep writing"
"Why stop contacting you?" (she spread out why she is so upset)
"Well there's no reason to be afraid, I get afraid to but I also realize life is too short to be afraid, I want to take you out for dinner next week, we'll have a great time together, sound good?"
She may have some more hesitation in which I'll make it seem like it's a completely ok situation with no pressure on her part, just casual and make it sound like it'll be a blast together.
"Wont you please stop contacting me? As said, I want to forget it all and it is a bit difficult when you keep writing"
"Why stop contacting you?" (she spread out why she is so upset)
"Well there's no reason to be afraid, I get afraid to but I also realize life is too short to be afraid, I want to take you out for dinner next week, we'll have a great time together, sound good?"
She may have some more hesitation in which I'll make it seem like it's a completely ok situation with no pressure on her part, just casual and make it sound like it'll be a blast together.
