12-04-2012, 07:58 AM
(12-04-2012, 05:59 AM)Ryan Wrote: Great way to handle it. I really get annoyed with guys who talk to women in such a way. As soon as they get a clue she's sexual, a guy assumes she is an easy lay and starts begging or bringing up more sexual conversation.
I notice at times I have gotten that way as well but I've learned over the years, don't. Play it off like it's no biggie, like it's something normal and natural and she should never be ashamed of it. Then she'll feel so comfortable talking to you about this kind of stuff and exploding on your lap.
Frequently it is a test: they're seeing if you're going to jump on the bait like a sex-starved beta, and will lose interest as soon as you do. When you play it off, you confirm that it's no big deal to you, which makes you more desirable.
Fear is a liar.
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