12-01-2012, 10:38 AM
Shannon, this is already pretty cool and I've been listening to it less than 10 days.. and there are still 22 to go.. and there are 5 stages more..
Stage 1 - Day 8,
Yesterday night I was out with two great buddies and we went to different bars. Many things happened before but can't tell you all the details but you can guess some out of what I've noticed of change.
Anyways we were on our regular bar at a point. A blonde on the way to go downstairs told my tall friend that he was hot.
Me and my two buddies go downstairs. My tall friend sat by a table while me and our other friend was on the dance-floor. The blonde from before danced closer and closer to us with her brunette friend. The blonde made a quick movement with her hand to feel my friends crotch and a bit later mine.
I told her something along like what Shannon have said, "Why is it that girls can grope guys and guys can't grope guys and it is totally unacceptable?
She said something and then she said, "I wont touch you anymore"
Then I replied, "I take that as an insult"
Her, "No. it's a compliment"
She disappeared suddenly but her brunette friend was still there.
Anyways, I was talking to my tall friend and we were going to leave and then suddenly this cute, petite dark skinned girl came up to me and told me I was very hot in a very vulnerable, sincere way.
Her friend, whom was with her the whole night took her away (My friend told me about that. I had first noticed the girl there).
So I kept talking with my friend. He asked me what happened and I said, nothing really but she wanted to f*** me. When I said that she stood just behind me by herself.
We talked very little, me and her, she felt around my body and complimented it. She said she was nervous because I was so hot. So I kissed her but she weren't much into it. "Was that better?" she was like no in her vulnerable way. So I made a little fun out of myself and she laughed a bit.
Anyways, I wasn't very attracted to her (I've become a very lazy lover) and we were on our way to the next place and she was going to another place with her friends. Gave her my number but haven't heard from her.
Going out again tonight with some friends
Positive changes I've noticed so far,
- Voice is much improved, more resonant, more loud
- Much more in the moment - hitting eye-contact with a girl and immediately start saying something (which is incredibly effective)
- Attachment is not noticeable
- Much more smooth in an interaction with a girl
- Caring so much less that I often sense I am a bit of an asshole
Stage 1 - Day 8,
Yesterday night I was out with two great buddies and we went to different bars. Many things happened before but can't tell you all the details but you can guess some out of what I've noticed of change.
Anyways we were on our regular bar at a point. A blonde on the way to go downstairs told my tall friend that he was hot.
Me and my two buddies go downstairs. My tall friend sat by a table while me and our other friend was on the dance-floor. The blonde from before danced closer and closer to us with her brunette friend. The blonde made a quick movement with her hand to feel my friends crotch and a bit later mine.
I told her something along like what Shannon have said, "Why is it that girls can grope guys and guys can't grope guys and it is totally unacceptable?
She said something and then she said, "I wont touch you anymore"
Then I replied, "I take that as an insult"
Her, "No. it's a compliment"
She disappeared suddenly but her brunette friend was still there.
Anyways, I was talking to my tall friend and we were going to leave and then suddenly this cute, petite dark skinned girl came up to me and told me I was very hot in a very vulnerable, sincere way.
Her friend, whom was with her the whole night took her away (My friend told me about that. I had first noticed the girl there).
So I kept talking with my friend. He asked me what happened and I said, nothing really but she wanted to f*** me. When I said that she stood just behind me by herself.
We talked very little, me and her, she felt around my body and complimented it. She said she was nervous because I was so hot. So I kissed her but she weren't much into it. "Was that better?" she was like no in her vulnerable way. So I made a little fun out of myself and she laughed a bit.
Anyways, I wasn't very attracted to her (I've become a very lazy lover
) and we were on our way to the next place and she was going to another place with her friends. Gave her my number but haven't heard from her.Going out again tonight with some friends
Positive changes I've noticed so far,
- Voice is much improved, more resonant, more loud
- Much more in the moment - hitting eye-contact with a girl and immediately start saying something (which is incredibly effective)
- Attachment is not noticeable
- Much more smooth in an interaction with a girl
- Caring so much less that I often sense I am a bit of an asshole
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
