11-18-2012, 09:15 AM
So this is it. 2 1/2 months with ASC 5th Generation sub.
Last Friday night I asked a friend of mine if he's going out tonight. He said yes so we decided to go to one of the high end clubs in this city.
I'm comfortable with dancing even alone so for most the night I tried hard to enjoy the music and dance. But with that my head is still thinking of a lot of stuff like looking for chicks, what I can do to approach them, working on my eye game etc. Now if I ever go out one night and think of just enjoying and having fun I'd be really grateful.
My bro isn't really the type of guy who approaches women too. Then I felt it, approach anxiety is hitting me up again as I saw prospects upon prospects of women who show up near me. The night ended and I haven't managed to approach a single lady. I've talked with around 2 guys whom I didn't know. I hope that didn't make me gay though lolz.
It's a real shame that I didn't try what I am supposed to do. The thing is, that night not only am I experiencing approach anxiety, I also am afraid of getting embarrassed in front of my friend. The feeling of regret is all upon me when I got home. Shit sucks bros.
On a positive note, yesterday I help my sister in her business. My task was to kind of approach customers who pass by her store and even take their orders. For the record, this isn't the first time I've done this, during my college years I opened up my own business with some friends and I managed to approach people to try our product. I even did some sales work back then and to think about it I can't believe I was able to sell quite good and managed to talked so easily to people I don't know.
My sister and her business partner couldn't thanked me enough for what I have done because on that day they managed to get a good amount of sale. They even commented on how funny I am in front of some customers. I even flirted with a couple of females. I was amazed at how I can do it like that.
Today looking back I can see that I can become sociable, friendly and even approach people at random if I want to. However, it is probably because my main goal is to have them buy instead of me wanting or liking them. I remember I wrote back here that I grew up in a traditional family with my parents rarely showing affection to each other and feelings and talk about love and relationship are rare. I feel now that I myself am not comfortable with having a relationship or getting women. Or I feel that I still have this backward thinking that society kind of condone men approaching and going for women. But isn't so when you're a salesman and approach a potential customer.
I will work on this at the same time I am working on being affected on how others view me.
Last Friday night I asked a friend of mine if he's going out tonight. He said yes so we decided to go to one of the high end clubs in this city.
I'm comfortable with dancing even alone so for most the night I tried hard to enjoy the music and dance. But with that my head is still thinking of a lot of stuff like looking for chicks, what I can do to approach them, working on my eye game etc. Now if I ever go out one night and think of just enjoying and having fun I'd be really grateful.
My bro isn't really the type of guy who approaches women too. Then I felt it, approach anxiety is hitting me up again as I saw prospects upon prospects of women who show up near me. The night ended and I haven't managed to approach a single lady. I've talked with around 2 guys whom I didn't know. I hope that didn't make me gay though lolz.
It's a real shame that I didn't try what I am supposed to do. The thing is, that night not only am I experiencing approach anxiety, I also am afraid of getting embarrassed in front of my friend. The feeling of regret is all upon me when I got home. Shit sucks bros.
On a positive note, yesterday I help my sister in her business. My task was to kind of approach customers who pass by her store and even take their orders. For the record, this isn't the first time I've done this, during my college years I opened up my own business with some friends and I managed to approach people to try our product. I even did some sales work back then and to think about it I can't believe I was able to sell quite good and managed to talked so easily to people I don't know.
My sister and her business partner couldn't thanked me enough for what I have done because on that day they managed to get a good amount of sale. They even commented on how funny I am in front of some customers. I even flirted with a couple of females. I was amazed at how I can do it like that.
Today looking back I can see that I can become sociable, friendly and even approach people at random if I want to. However, it is probably because my main goal is to have them buy instead of me wanting or liking them. I remember I wrote back here that I grew up in a traditional family with my parents rarely showing affection to each other and feelings and talk about love and relationship are rare. I feel now that I myself am not comfortable with having a relationship or getting women. Or I feel that I still have this backward thinking that society kind of condone men approaching and going for women. But isn't so when you're a salesman and approach a potential customer.
I will work on this at the same time I am working on being affected on how others view me.
"Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent."
