09-28-2012, 08:39 AM
(This post was last modified: 09-28-2012, 08:43 AM by FunkeyMonkey.)
So true.
Honesty communicates healthy vulnerability, which communicates confidence, which communicates non-neediness, which communicates value, which triggers attraction.
Honesty also communicates reliability, which fosters trust, which fosters connection, which fosters intimacy.
Subtle but powerful.
Of course it has to come from a real place for the right reasons. This isn't a new technique called "honesty." It has to come from a place of emotional health.
Organic not mechanized.
Most "game" is mechanized, which downgrades people to man-made machines rather than the creator of the machines. Man-made machines are mechanized versions of organic processes. The more advance technology becomes, the more organic it will become - representing more closely it's creator.
For humans to degrade themselves to mechanized machines is a sign of societal neurosis.
Honesty communicates healthy vulnerability, which communicates confidence, which communicates non-neediness, which communicates value, which triggers attraction.
Honesty also communicates reliability, which fosters trust, which fosters connection, which fosters intimacy.
Subtle but powerful.
Of course it has to come from a real place for the right reasons. This isn't a new technique called "honesty." It has to come from a place of emotional health.
Organic not mechanized.
Most "game" is mechanized, which downgrades people to man-made machines rather than the creator of the machines. Man-made machines are mechanized versions of organic processes. The more advance technology becomes, the more organic it will become - representing more closely it's creator.
For humans to degrade themselves to mechanized machines is a sign of societal neurosis.
