Reflections of Charm: My Sex Magnet 3 Diaries

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I'm not quitting just yet.


Shannon, when is that supposed to happen? At what stage?

IIRC most of us experienced that effect starting around stage 3, where the big guns start coming out.  Some may have experienced it around 2 or 4, and some did not experience it.  But every one of us who was executing well seemed to experience it.  The women who respond seem to want to use you for their sexual gratification.

About the girl, I had already given up on her when she said I'm too old and such. But then she continued to text me. She texts me every day. I'm not sure what's her story because she keeps mentioning her boyfriend. I think she's thinking about cheating or considering her options, or maybe it just feels good for her to feel wanted.

Maybe ask her why she's still texting you if she has a boyfriend.  It could also be that she's just wanting to be friends, or is attracted but can't let herself do anything because of boyfriend and beliefs, etc.  This is actually an opportunity to turn it around on, and with, her if you know how, and maybe make more progress.

I've continued to learn PUA material and it's very demanding! I'm doing well and I like the frame I can create with an indirect approach. This way, if and when they behave as they often do here, I can keep my composure and maintain my value.

Do you have to try to get women interested there?  Is that cultural in any way?

Reply #2:

Sorry for the delayed response, Shannon. I missed your post because you double-posted.

Unfortunately, it’s a cultural thing here. You have to be much more aggressive or show clear interest when approaching women. They are often very subtle about their attraction and usually won’t make the first move. Even if they text someone they’re interested in, they’ll be vague, and if the guy doesn’t get the hint, they might never talk to him again. Women here face a lot of pressure from being approached multiple times a day, sometimes also by old men making comments in public spaces like shops, markets or malls. 
When a normal guys approach them:
They often react by ignoring, claiming they have a boyfriend, or walking away. 
Sometimes, they’ll even raise their voice or say something strange or rude to deter attention.

I don't go out a lot but when I do:

Given this context, the fact that I almost no longer get these negative reactions since starting affirmations is a big improvement. This change didn’t happen just by using Alpha Male or Sex Magnet until now. 
It’s the affirmations that seem to make a difference. Affirmations are helping because they reshape my belief system. 
The reality I used to see wasn’t desirable, but with affirmations, I can consciously think about a different reality. 
This change in mindset is reflected in how women subconsciously react to me. 
They tell me I seem different and more likable than other guys here. 
While they may not be super interested initially, even after a week of affirmations, I can see how it helps. It gives me the confidence that something is happening and encourages a positive outlook, allowing opportunities to arise. And the Sex Magnet to show me what it does. With a negative thoughts or mindset Sex Magnet is not allowed to shine through.
That's my opinion and what I feel.
That's why some people didn't have results with some of the programs that what I think.
Without a positive outlook attitude and mindset positive results try to grow not in fertile soil.


I’ve stopped using or learning PUA techniques. I believe women respond better to my positive thinking and natural reactions rather than techniques. 
While PUA methods can be effective, they won’t work without a strong positive mindset or belief in one’s attractiveness. If you don’t believe you’re attractive or that women can want you, the techniques fall flat. That’s why I’m focusing on positive thinking and affirmations, as they seem to address the core issue of what makes women attracted to a man.

About that girl I've texted I've stopped texting her.
Of course I've asked her why do we text if you have a bf she said it's because she doesn't want to be rude when I approached her and that she can text but will not meet.
So I've deleted her number.