Rock's X4A-1511 journal

[Darkness]

If I were you, I would find a way to get her alone in person when she's not at work, and then sit her down and say something like, "So I think we may have some sort of miscommunication or misunderstanding.  I'd like to clear it up." Then ask her what her point of view is about your date, etc. and at the end explain yours if it differs.  Also, directly communicate to her that you do like her, and you are getting the impression that you may have done or said something that made her think otherwise... I can't hold your hand on everything here, this is just to give you an example.  But that's how you need to do this for it to really work.  And ask for brutal honesty so you can really understand where she's coming from.  That's what I would do, at least.

I agree with you. I wanted to say something like what you suggested. I just tried to punch through to the core of what I wanted to know.

Her answer didn't tell me too much aside from she said things are fine so that's better than the opposite.

I will invite her to pizza or the park and see what she says.

Also I gotta add a nice lookin server at the BBQ place rang me up and referred to me as baby. At least 4 different servers call me that.

I know it's a way most times to get tips but these girls wasn't my servers when calling me baby.

The server at the BBQ place the one that popped up outta nowhere and told me bye Rocky. I am definitely gonna pull the trigger inviting her out as soon as I get enough info about her.

To chime in: I have worked in restaurants as server.

If she’s said it’s okay, I would suggest to just leave it as is. Don’t ask her out again. Don’t do another check in either.

The next thing, you shot your shot with one server.
Keep your image kosher, don’t ask another.

Be chill, be social. If they get to see you, and you’ve been cool with no agenda, vibe with them.

Let them cross that line of hanging out.