06-24-2024, 01:42 PM
(06-24-2024, 08:51 AM)Diablojack00 Wrote:(06-23-2024, 09:11 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: Alright. I will try this way which is really the best way.
I forgot to say that I ate at another restaurant today at a different restaurant.
I don't eat there as often as the one with the twins.
I have seen a server that is gorgeous to me. So she got close to me and I just asked her where's her section at. She said they don't really have sections but I can request a server. I asked will she be my server and she said Yeah, I'll be your server just pick a table and tell the hostess.
So that's what I did. She came to the table and she told her name and I told her mine.
She was sweet and attentive much like the twins were at first.
She got pretty close to me most times she came to the table and she finessed the things on the table in front of me. She bent all the way over that table.
It was definitely intentional because she didn't have to do that at all.
As I paid she popped up next to me out of freaking nowhere to tell me bye and I am sure she used my name. Not gonna lie it sorta caught me off guard.
I told her bye but used her name. And I went home.
I ate at the restaurant and my crush acted as normal as usual just assumed she was my server and I talked to her.
She was busy so we didn't talk much.
I said Hey I know you're busy but if I've done anything to make you feel uncomfortable you can talk to me about it.
she said No you're fine. I said Okay I wanted to be sure and she said that's okay.
She looked directly at me when she said that.
So even though I have X4A-1511 and I know the attraction is there there may not be anything else I can do right now. If there is then I can do my best to use your advice.
I think one issue is that it's hard dealing with twins in general. My crush knows I find her sister attractive but I treat her sister like a valuable human being.
I could be wrong but I'm open to advice.
I may just need to learn how to text her but I have looked at texting guides and they seem dumb.
If I were you, I would find a way to get her alone in person when she's not at work, and then sit her down and say something like, "So I think we may have some sort of miscommunication or misunderstanding. I'd like to clear it up." Then ask her what her point of view is about your date, etc. and at the end explain yours if it differs. Also, directly communicate to her that you do like her, and you are getting the impression that you may have done or said something that made her think otherwise... I can't hold your hand on everything here, this is just to give you an example. But that's how you need to do this for it to really work. And ask for brutal honesty so you can really understand where she's coming from. That's what I would do, at least.
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