04-24-2024, 02:02 AM
(04-23-2024, 11:12 PM)Shannon Wrote:(04-23-2024, 02:17 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: Thanks.
So a few hrs ago I text her Hi, it's Rocky. That way she has my number.
So I usually eat on Tuesdays and Wednesdays.
If she doesn't reply tonight or by in the morning should I just go eat as usual?
Or should I wait till next week?
"Hi it's Rocky" was just to give her my number but maybe that's not something to get her to text back.
Any advice that you feel is applicable is appreciated.
In your shoes, I would go eat as usual, and maybe ask her if she got your text. What you texted may or may not get a reply. So if she got your text, then start asking her questions via text. Not too frequently, but get a conversation rolling, and make it interesting. I find that texting is a great way to miscommunicate, so I vastly prever in-person if possible, or voice otherwise. But don't be obtrusive, don't be needy, and keep it fun and playful. And by "don't be needy", I mean, don't be concerned if she doesn't reply, and don't try again if she doesn't. Just assume something was not aligned, and talk to her in person next.
That is what I would do. That may not be the best possible advice, as I am not the world's best text game dude. But it's what I would do.
Thanks. I'm not the best texter either and I agree it's a great way to miscommunication.
Keeping texting fun and to bare minimum and talking to her in person is usually my strategy too.
I think it's solid advice and I appreciate it.
I'll report back soon.