04-09-2024, 02:09 PM
(04-09-2024, 01:20 PM)Shannon Wrote:(04-09-2024, 11:49 AM)AbundanceCH Wrote: No offense but you need to stop fn around this is child's stuff you're doing.
Are you doing online dating? salsa dancing?
This stuff with trying to get a server it's just child's stuff and not serious. It's usually very inexperienced guys who fall for these type of women. They are a waste of time they get paid to be friendly.
You will meet 20 times the girls in salsa dancing. You need to focus your energy on high ROI pursuits when it comes to women not stuff that are known to be low ROI (like servers, cashiers and all these "hired guns" that inexperienced guys fall for.
I understand where you're coming from, but it's a rather black and white view of the situation. Most servers are just being nice because they are paid to, since you're a customer. But it is possible to get a server interested and move it outside of work. It usually takes a lot longer than what you're suggesting, but it can and does happen.
@Shannon
I think I'm making good progress. I don't know if I could have moved things along quicker by doing anything else.
I'm okay with the progress with Morgan.
I do get girls and women checking me out a lot.
And one thing I've not mentioned before.
I do Maintenance at a retail store part time for extra money. My main job is fitness trainer.
In my Maintenance job I have to clean the ladies rooms.
While I am cleaning I have the restroom blocked off with a sign.
One particular day I had to vacuum Water from an over flown toilet and so the Vacuum is very loud and anyone would know I'm in there.
The closed sign had fallen in the floor buy I kept working.
2 younger girls probably 17-20 walked in and one said Oh I didn't know you were cleaning. They proceeded to toilet stalls as if it were totally fine that I was still in there.
This happens 3 or 4 times a week. With different aged women usually younger girls.
The cashiers say it doesn't happen to the other Maintenance guys and they laugh.
I need to add that when the girls do come in there I immediately leave the restroom and wait till it's clear to go back in there.