Rock's X4A-1511 journal

[Shannon]

No offense but you need to stop fn around this is child's stuff you're doing.

Are you doing online dating? salsa dancing?

This stuff with trying to get a server it's just child's stuff and not serious.  It's usually very inexperienced guys who fall for these type of women.  They are a waste of time they get paid to be friendly.

You will meet 20 times the girls in salsa dancing.  You need to focus your energy on high ROI pursuits when it comes to women not stuff that are known to be low ROI (like servers, cashiers and all these "hired guns" that inexperienced guys fall for.

I understand where you're coming from, but it's a rather black and white view of the situation.  Most servers are just being nice because they are paid to, since you're a customer.  But it is possible to get a server interested and move it outside of work.  It usually takes a lot longer than what you're suggesting, but it can and does happen.