Rocks x4a-1000 Journal

[Diablojack00]

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@Shannon

So on Valentine's day the server girl allowed me to touch her bracelet.

I sorta brushed her wrist as I turned the bracelet to look at the stones.

Being as she said Maybe and that she'd have to think about it to a movie I haven't said anything about that and I'm just being normal as possible.

I'm on 8 loops of x4a 1000

I really thought she'd say yes to a movie.

In my experience, if a girl does what she did, she's just trying to make it not awkward without really being interested.  If she's still your server, and you keep going, it will get awkward and uncomfortable for her.  The best response is to assume nothing will happen, she's not interested that way, and just disconnect from that possibility and do your thing.  This way nothing gets awkward, and if she is interested, she will take your withdrawal as meaning you are a higher value guy and become more interested.  If she's not interested, then you're showing that you're not needy, which can get you points indirectly.  But avoid being needy or allowing that to be the message at all costs. If I were you, I would just take your interactions with her as a fun social game at this point.

Remember that X4A-1000 is a sexual vibe.  If you don't have some part of you sabotaging it, then she may not be interested in just a sexual thing with you.  It may also be a mismatch to her that you're flooded with raw sexual energy, but you want to date.

Thanks. I'll disconnect as best I can.

The reason the twins are always my servers is cus me and my mom kept getting servers that took our order and we'd never see them again.

The twins were always sweeping or something so we'd ask them.  

So mom suggested requesting one of them.

After a few times requesting, the one twin started greeting me when she saw me.

I had asked for a movie date cus I didn't know how else to see her outside of her work.

With the server I'd like a relationship most likely, but if raw sexual energy won't do the trick then I'm lost. 

I asked for a movie date cus I didn't know how else to see her outside of her work.

I had planned to take a week or two break from the restaurant and see how she reacts seeing me again when I do go back.

Either way I'll definitely disconnect.