OGSF 5.9G

[GreekGod22]

Realised that I’m afraid that I won’t find someone who loves me, and then I realised it’s because I’m afraid that I’ll be cheated on if my partner doesn’t love me. I don’t feel secure unless I feel loved, and I realised how needy this makes me for my partners love it it’s ever withdrawn.

I can relate a lot to that. Especially the part where you condition feeling secure with being loved.
We as men have it harder. As a man, you have to achieve happiness and stability from within first, nothing a woman does should devastate you emotionally. And that's exactly when you will have solid relationship. Making a woman your only source of validation, putting your happiness in her hands will only backfire and make her resent you.