Day 69 (right on...),
The prevailing though of the day (and yesterday), true or not, is this: every boundary is negotiable.
This isn't to say that you push against established boundaries, or become a pest to get what you want.
I think that the secret is to not enter 'debate-mode' about these things (for conversations), but rather to deepen your relationship with yourself; hone your self-confidence in reshaping the Universe around you. That you can bend time and space and become a serious force of nature.
The prevailing though of the day (and yesterday), true or not, is this: every boundary is negotiable.
This isn't to say that you push against established boundaries, or become a pest to get what you want.
- A woman has a boyfriend, but that could go away tomorrow, and she could be yours in a one week, without having to compromise on your ethics
- You get offered a terrible starting wage, but they probably have more in the budget, or a different company could offer double.
- Someone can offer a rule that disqualifies you, but will ultimately choose you above the others
- You might debate someone with a tough front, but your frame and approach to the conversation has them on their heels
- There's a scary looking guy trying to fight you, but you can knock him out in a single punch with a bit of timing, skill, and lots of practice.
I think that the secret is to not enter 'debate-mode' about these things (for conversations), but rather to deepen your relationship with yourself; hone your self-confidence in reshaping the Universe around you. That you can bend time and space and become a serious force of nature.
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