09-03-2012, 07:52 AM
(09-03-2012, 06:54 AM)jonathanzx10 Wrote: but if you really stop and think about it, there might be a ton of other unintended consequences too. How many marriages with kids are gonna be broken once the husband figures he can be doing 9's instead of his wife which is a 5?
Your average happily married man is not typically going to be downloading AM. Second, your happily married man who does download AM is usually going to become more happily married when he increases his alpha because the wife he loves is going to respond positively to his increased alpha. Third, AM is not going to disconnect his feelings of attachment to the mother of his children.
We're left with unhappily married men, who were unlikely to remain married anyhow. The children in these circumstances are likely to benefit from seeing Dad in a happy relationship and modeling that relationship than they were watching the cold war of a for-the-kids marriage.
Also, how many of those marriages were doomed anyhow? A large SMV delta is a huge hurdle for a relationship to overcome.
Finally, there is a broken window fallacy, where you are only mentioning the marriages which ended after the man listened to AM and left. There will also be a number of marriages saved by AM because the highly betaized husband turned up his alpha and restored the power balance of the marriage.
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