People who used OF(Overcome Fear) ..What changed in life or yourself ?

[Z-Man]

OF had the effect on me of freeing me from fears I didn't even know I had until they were gone.  I became socially fearless, and much more socially active and popular for one.  Everyone just seems to enjoy my company when I have no fear socially.  I am smooth and natural and they relax and follow suit.  

I found myself doing things I would never do otherwise, like I went indoor skydiving and took up ziplining for fun.  Now I've been on three or four zip line courses and I look forward to doing it a lot more, as well as indoor skydiving more too.  Huge fun.

It's also allowed me to be myself more, hold my ground better in disagreements, and respond with more self control in arguments.  Life is easier to handle, because even in the worst situations and the darkest of times, I can look at things objectively and say, "Well, I have done what I can, and it is what it is.  I'll keep looking for options and solutions, but there's no point in getting upset when it's not within my control to change."  That's BIG for me.  There's more, but I can't remember everything off the top of my head.

Hey Shannon, that sounds like a lot of fun. Did Gf do it with you?

GF is the one who wanted to go in the first place.  I wouldn't have been able to do these things with her if not for OF.  

Have you ever jump off a cliff into water?

No.  Falling is not my idea of fun, and hitting the water at speed is not either.  Neither is trying to swim with lungs as bad as mine are right now.

I wish I had a girlfriend that was a daredevil like you have. We don't have that here in NY.

You can have whatever you want out of life, if you know how to ask for it.  The universe awaits your request.  Just don't ask for my girl.  ;  But I didn't meet her because I was waiting around for her to show up.  I asked for a woman who was right for me.

Shannon, knows the receipt for asking and receiving. I need to work on it. I glad you found the women of your dreams.