01-02-2022, 06:24 AM
(This post was last modified: 01-02-2022, 06:27 AM by Johannesbrst.)
Hi man,
I've also had some challenges in getting it on, so to speak, with girls, especially because of covid and not being able to go out and meet people as online dating haven't worked very well for me, yet.
However one thing I realized after having a break and spending the night with someone is that it made me realize "hey, it's nothing wrong with me, it was just in my head".
The issue is that when you haven't had that break for a while your thoughts start become almost a mantra, and you start believing that it actually is something wrong with you, and you then probably miss out on some interactions just because you are either starting to act passively/over-compensating (for something that's only true in your head).
Subliminals have helped me work trough some energy blockages that was making me live to much in my head, but what also have helped me get out of my head is learning to focus on my breath. When you do that the impact of your thoughts and the narrative you tell yourself loose it's power and you can look at yourself without all those negative connotations (I.e i haven't been with a girl for X weeks/months/years/whatever do that must mean that I suck).
For me the first goal isn't to necessarily attract women but to learn to have a healthy mindset and be relaxed around other people, and able to get intimate, close and honest with them without any self inflicted barriers. I think that OF will help me reach that place given enough time.
I've also had some challenges in getting it on, so to speak, with girls, especially because of covid and not being able to go out and meet people as online dating haven't worked very well for me, yet.
However one thing I realized after having a break and spending the night with someone is that it made me realize "hey, it's nothing wrong with me, it was just in my head".
The issue is that when you haven't had that break for a while your thoughts start become almost a mantra, and you start believing that it actually is something wrong with you, and you then probably miss out on some interactions just because you are either starting to act passively/over-compensating (for something that's only true in your head).
Subliminals have helped me work trough some energy blockages that was making me live to much in my head, but what also have helped me get out of my head is learning to focus on my breath. When you do that the impact of your thoughts and the narrative you tell yourself loose it's power and you can look at yourself without all those negative connotations (I.e i haven't been with a girl for X weeks/months/years/whatever do that must mean that I suck).
For me the first goal isn't to necessarily attract women but to learn to have a healthy mindset and be relaxed around other people, and able to get intimate, close and honest with them without any self inflicted barriers. I think that OF will help me reach that place given enough time.
