Make Fear Fiction Again (OF V3)

[GreekGod22]

When scheduling dates / meet-ups with girls / women, what I've found works really well is the concept of a soft close.
A regular close in this context would be "Hey, let's meet, I'd like to see you". To which she is forced to give a Yes or No, clear-cut answer.
With a soft close, you never try to close without first gauging her level of investment in the interaction and her compliance towards you. Let's say you are a photographer. In the interaction(texting or real-life), if you feel she is interested and invested in the interaction, you initiate a soft close. Would be something like this.

-One of my passions is photography
-Oh, really, that sounds interesting. I love X type of photos
- I'll have to show you my collection, you will love them.

Or "Do you like wine?". This is also a soft close.
Also, when it comes to actual scheduling the meet, don't do  "Let's meet on X day". Instead, simply ask:
What's your schedule like this weekend / next week / next couple of days?

She will respond that she is free  on Thursday and Friday. You then tell her:
Friday is perfect for me!.
or
Let's meet on Friday.

In this way, you are always leading. You are asking her schedule, but you are the one who actually decides the day.
I personally, never initiate a meet-up unless I'm at the point where I have very high compliance from her.
Oftentimes, it will be the woman who will close me.