10-16-2021, 12:04 PM
(10-16-2021, 05:17 AM)lano1106 Wrote: You have to actually take the courage to do it few times to realize that those fears that are stopping you to be that way are irrationals and invalid.
I was in a state of fear for years that paralyzes me every time I tend to approach someone I don't know or someone I attracted to.
Actually a few times I approached, rarely was good, some of them rejected, and after a few tries I completely shutdown myself to dating-approaching (what refers to MODE 3 in the ARC's book), but I didn't have the courage to say anything that indicates sexuality, fear was very strong (I didn't notice this until now).
what I realize is fear fades when you start to talking, but it is in full force before to talk. thx for honest advice, the only known way is to doing it, SM is also help me with aura, I have to do something which will break this vicious circle
AM6-1(4.19)--AM6-2(11.19)--SE-5.5G--AM6-3(9.20)--SE 5.5G(3.21)--AM6-S7(6.21)--SM3-1(7.2021)--AM6-4(1.2022)
"To be able to shape your future, you have to be WILLING and ABLE to CHANGE YOUR PARADIGM." - Joel Barker
"To be able to shape your future, you have to be WILLING and ABLE to CHANGE YOUR PARADIGM." - Joel Barker
