07-23-2021, 05:53 PM
(This post was last modified: 07-23-2021, 05:55 PM by LionMonkey.)
[OF v3 - Day 2] – Control, girls & vanilla
Day 2, ran 2 loops – next 3 days off
Yooooo!
Just came back from the city.. What a damn night!
She’s holding my hand tight after I introduced myself and a bit later she puts her lip out to be kissed by her girlfriend, then talking about strap-on…
Woke up a little hangover but I kind of liked it. It’s like a sense of time slowing down.
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Had an amazing 45 min. Jog around a forest and lake.
It was like I was very relaxed and I felt the mind to muscle connection most of the run.
Same feelings I had back in the days where I felt god-like. Very euphoric. And that was the time where I was in top-form and chicks digged me nearly everywhere I met them (that happened after 21 days of meeting 3 chicks daily). I believe I was on the old AM 5.0 or WM at the time 7-8 years ago in mid/late 2013.
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At work, I noticed and caught a few chicks looking at me.
Co-worker chick also was extra attentive and compliant towards me today.
While driving, I noticed the constant tiny fear was gone, when I was driving with the windows fully rolled down and other cars passed by.
It’s a small fear I had sometimes because of the loud noise suddenly but today it was non existent and I just noticed that, checking in on my body when I passed all these cars.
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So I felt tired after yesterdays party and on top of that my buddy felt sick today, so I was going solo.
Set a goal for interacting with 5 chicks/groups.
1 Met 2 chicks at the other area of bars. They were waiting for drinks. Initially they were interested but eventually they kind of forgot about me and their friends came with drinks. I stayed for a bit longer and friends were like hi to me, curious but they were talking about me and closed themselves off a bit, I left.
2 Two smoking chicks asked a guy for directions. I came in right after and asked where they wanted to go. They wanted to find another way around to get to the other bars area but were afraid to take the straight path (there are homeless people there).
I invited them to walk with me as I was going there as well. So they followed me through the homeless place and after that I told them they are free birds now!
I don’t know why but walking and talking has never been my thing. They were smoking not the best type for me but I didn’t bother making conversation
Felt like this interaction didn’t count.
3 I walk through a bar/cafe outside and hit eye contact with a cute/hot brunette sitting with her brunette friend. It was a more quiet atmosphere there.
I introduced myself and shook hands and the brunette held my hand tight for 10-15 seconds. Offered me to try her drink.
She shoots the shit and blurts out sexual stuff. Very bold and sexually open. Talked about she’s the man in their relationship, she’s the one wearing the strap-on.. I looked at her kind of blase and right after she was like I’m joking.
At a point she puts lip out and lean forward towards her friend to kiss but her friend was hesitant and I was like, let’s make it happen lol. Lightly putting my hands behind their heads.
But her friend didn’t want to do it and she kept her lips out.
I was about to kiss her myself but didn’t.
Too controlled man..
I was too focused on being in control of my emotions…
And the moment passed.
Lastly they asked if that’s my friend, nodding towards a blonde tipsy guy, in a white shirt. Told them I was by myself tonight and she blurted that’s awkward and immediately said but it’s cool.
Eventually they asked me to leave.
4 Two ladies in their lates 30’s, having bathed in the local canals earlier today. I talked extra much in this interaction and one was quite attentive but it wasn’t very exciting things.
When I reveal too much stuff about myself, chicks seems to lose their interest/attention.
5 Got close to the centre of bar areas where it’s mingling atmosphere. Talked to 2 girls, one from Chicago and other local. Not very interesting. I thought there and then, why are the interactions so boring.
And I remember I heard that if they are boring, it’s you. You make interactions interesting. Don’t rely on girls making them interesting.
And I thought, yes… I gotta come in from a different angle!
6 Two girls, I interrupt them while one was enthusiastically speaking about something. I acknowledge my interruption but they still talk to me. Can’t remember what we talked about but eventually they wanted to continue their enthusiastic talk and were so shy about it. Told me at last it was about pole dancing and they have a stigma about that people have judgements towards that etc. they couldn’t get themselves to tell me to leave but I sensed it was best to leave so I did and they were appreciative for it.
7 I thought I was on 5 at this time. It was getting late however my tiredness at start wasn’t that present.
So I decided to push for 1 more than my goal.
Walk around the outskirts of the area.. taking about 15 minutes. Passing guys wanting to fight and be cool.
Eventually I missed two 9/10 chicks and I went back to the central bar area. I see two girls who are ok looking like 7-8/10 and went over. I quickly realize the blonde is very tipsy and had a gangster vibe of I don’t give a damn! While her brunette friend was also short on temper.
Introduced myself and I could see they were kind of like whatever.
I didn’t speak up enough at a point and saw the brunette reaction of, please dude.
They were waiting for some people, perhaps dudes or friends.
Definitely required a strong intention to have any good influence on them. Which I didn’t have. Vanilla was not their flavour at that time.
6-7 DONE.
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Things I noticed throughout the night:
Bad side was I wasn’t very engaging or exciting.
I think OF is challenging the idea that I have to be very animated for chicks to want to engage with me.
The truth is, most chicks wants excitement and animation when out partying but it was definitely interesting to see the effects.
Tomorrow we’ll do it again, try to be more polarising and exciting. Gotta have some ready lines to test out.
Thx for reading. Took me some time.. not going to do them detailed for long lol….
Push the envelope!!
-LM
Day 2, ran 2 loops – next 3 days off
Yooooo!
Just came back from the city.. What a damn night!
She’s holding my hand tight after I introduced myself and a bit later she puts her lip out to be kissed by her girlfriend, then talking about strap-on…
Woke up a little hangover but I kind of liked it. It’s like a sense of time slowing down.
======================
Had an amazing 45 min. Jog around a forest and lake.
It was like I was very relaxed and I felt the mind to muscle connection most of the run.
Same feelings I had back in the days where I felt god-like. Very euphoric. And that was the time where I was in top-form and chicks digged me nearly everywhere I met them (that happened after 21 days of meeting 3 chicks daily). I believe I was on the old AM 5.0 or WM at the time 7-8 years ago in mid/late 2013.
======================
At work, I noticed and caught a few chicks looking at me.
Co-worker chick also was extra attentive and compliant towards me today.
While driving, I noticed the constant tiny fear was gone, when I was driving with the windows fully rolled down and other cars passed by.
It’s a small fear I had sometimes because of the loud noise suddenly but today it was non existent and I just noticed that, checking in on my body when I passed all these cars.
======================
So I felt tired after yesterdays party and on top of that my buddy felt sick today, so I was going solo.
Set a goal for interacting with 5 chicks/groups.
1 Met 2 chicks at the other area of bars. They were waiting for drinks. Initially they were interested but eventually they kind of forgot about me and their friends came with drinks. I stayed for a bit longer and friends were like hi to me, curious but they were talking about me and closed themselves off a bit, I left.
2 Two smoking chicks asked a guy for directions. I came in right after and asked where they wanted to go. They wanted to find another way around to get to the other bars area but were afraid to take the straight path (there are homeless people there).
I invited them to walk with me as I was going there as well. So they followed me through the homeless place and after that I told them they are free birds now!
I don’t know why but walking and talking has never been my thing. They were smoking not the best type for me but I didn’t bother making conversation
Felt like this interaction didn’t count.
3 I walk through a bar/cafe outside and hit eye contact with a cute/hot brunette sitting with her brunette friend. It was a more quiet atmosphere there.
I introduced myself and shook hands and the brunette held my hand tight for 10-15 seconds. Offered me to try her drink.
She shoots the shit and blurts out sexual stuff. Very bold and sexually open. Talked about she’s the man in their relationship, she’s the one wearing the strap-on.. I looked at her kind of blase and right after she was like I’m joking.
At a point she puts lip out and lean forward towards her friend to kiss but her friend was hesitant and I was like, let’s make it happen lol. Lightly putting my hands behind their heads.
But her friend didn’t want to do it and she kept her lips out.
I was about to kiss her myself but didn’t.
Too controlled man..
I was too focused on being in control of my emotions…
And the moment passed.
Lastly they asked if that’s my friend, nodding towards a blonde tipsy guy, in a white shirt. Told them I was by myself tonight and she blurted that’s awkward and immediately said but it’s cool.
Eventually they asked me to leave.
4 Two ladies in their lates 30’s, having bathed in the local canals earlier today. I talked extra much in this interaction and one was quite attentive but it wasn’t very exciting things.
When I reveal too much stuff about myself, chicks seems to lose their interest/attention.
5 Got close to the centre of bar areas where it’s mingling atmosphere. Talked to 2 girls, one from Chicago and other local. Not very interesting. I thought there and then, why are the interactions so boring.
And I remember I heard that if they are boring, it’s you. You make interactions interesting. Don’t rely on girls making them interesting.
And I thought, yes… I gotta come in from a different angle!
6 Two girls, I interrupt them while one was enthusiastically speaking about something. I acknowledge my interruption but they still talk to me. Can’t remember what we talked about but eventually they wanted to continue their enthusiastic talk and were so shy about it. Told me at last it was about pole dancing and they have a stigma about that people have judgements towards that etc. they couldn’t get themselves to tell me to leave but I sensed it was best to leave so I did and they were appreciative for it.
7 I thought I was on 5 at this time. It was getting late however my tiredness at start wasn’t that present.
So I decided to push for 1 more than my goal.
Walk around the outskirts of the area.. taking about 15 minutes. Passing guys wanting to fight and be cool.
Eventually I missed two 9/10 chicks and I went back to the central bar area. I see two girls who are ok looking like 7-8/10 and went over. I quickly realize the blonde is very tipsy and had a gangster vibe of I don’t give a damn! While her brunette friend was also short on temper.
Introduced myself and I could see they were kind of like whatever.
I didn’t speak up enough at a point and saw the brunette reaction of, please dude.
They were waiting for some people, perhaps dudes or friends.
Definitely required a strong intention to have any good influence on them. Which I didn’t have. Vanilla was not their flavour at that time.
6-7 DONE.
=======================
Things I noticed throughout the night:
- I can meet chicks feeling pretty comfortable and talk.. but not much intention behind it. Just a bit of vanilla.
- Noticed throughout the night that I was less animated and more in control of myself than usual.
Bad side was I wasn’t very engaging or exciting.
- While talking with the chicks, I could feel the habits of getting very animated but I felt it would make me ungrounded.
I think OF is challenging the idea that I have to be very animated for chicks to want to engage with me.
The truth is, most chicks wants excitement and animation when out partying but it was definitely interesting to see the effects.
Tomorrow we’ll do it again, try to be more polarising and exciting. Gotta have some ready lines to test out.
Thx for reading. Took me some time.. not going to do them detailed for long lol….
Push the envelope!!
-LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
