04-24-2021, 09:52 AM
Hey Shannon!
Great exchange the other day. I'm glad my post could help. That's reassuring for things going forward. Keep in mind I've seen things already on the sub, it isn't like it's nothing but negative side effects. For example, as I stated before, I removed the numbers of all females from my phone and let them contact me first over time. If they did, great. If not, I have not reached out. Some have, some haven't. They have seemed surprised I did it, which is amusing. I guess guys don't do that. Now I don't feel like crap when I get a non-response for whatever reason, and don't feel like chasing any contact now. I suppose that's a plus, it's something I wasn't able to do ever, I'd always be pining and chasing somehow I admit. Trying to "make something happen", which never works.
Also, the sub is making certain non girl/sex "way off/impossible things" seems much closer to my reality. That's interesting. Procrastination is a serious problem to put some of those things into action though annoyingly...hopefully procrastination can be fixed somehow with the next version. Very annoying problem, like an "invisible wall" between something you really want and you. Not sure why or how it's happening. I saw your post before about procrastination being a highly motivated attempt to avoid being told what to do. But I'm not sure how to handle it if it's coming from an internal source, something one wants to do themself. It's likely fear in the end so hopefully you can get OF V3 to address this. But I'm just referencing your older post to someone about this as I found it interesting.
Just wanted to confirm because you mentioned in an earlier post that you'd decide which program to make after some model run. I assume OF V3 is next. I don't know what your alternates are like you said, but a confirmation would be nice. It'd be amazing to have it sometime in May, wow! How exciting.
Thanks a lot, Shannon!
Great exchange the other day. I'm glad my post could help. That's reassuring for things going forward. Keep in mind I've seen things already on the sub, it isn't like it's nothing but negative side effects. For example, as I stated before, I removed the numbers of all females from my phone and let them contact me first over time. If they did, great. If not, I have not reached out. Some have, some haven't. They have seemed surprised I did it, which is amusing. I guess guys don't do that. Now I don't feel like crap when I get a non-response for whatever reason, and don't feel like chasing any contact now. I suppose that's a plus, it's something I wasn't able to do ever, I'd always be pining and chasing somehow I admit. Trying to "make something happen", which never works.
Also, the sub is making certain non girl/sex "way off/impossible things" seems much closer to my reality. That's interesting. Procrastination is a serious problem to put some of those things into action though annoyingly...hopefully procrastination can be fixed somehow with the next version. Very annoying problem, like an "invisible wall" between something you really want and you. Not sure why or how it's happening. I saw your post before about procrastination being a highly motivated attempt to avoid being told what to do. But I'm not sure how to handle it if it's coming from an internal source, something one wants to do themself. It's likely fear in the end so hopefully you can get OF V3 to address this. But I'm just referencing your older post to someone about this as I found it interesting.
Just wanted to confirm because you mentioned in an earlier post that you'd decide which program to make after some model run. I assume OF V3 is next. I don't know what your alternates are like you said, but a confirmation would be nice. It'd be amazing to have it sometime in May, wow! How exciting.
Thanks a lot, Shannon!
