03-26-2021, 04:59 AM
Hey Shannon. Along side MLS i've been looking at a lot literature on toxic shame and exercises to start to address it.
Its been fascinating and challenging - and one thing it suggests to me is that unconditional love could be a very efficient way to integrate and calm the disparate inner voices of shame. I think i see why your models suggested this would be a valuable and popular sub and my guess is that this will contribute a lot to how future subs work in healing the self.
I guess my question is how much do you think that 'love is the answer' to the many ills we have and whether you could share any insight on the role of love in development and healing.
I won't name names but thinking back to some of the darker voices that have been on this forum, there were guys who had no sense of the humanity of women, and others who seemed unable to get people at all. I wonder how much a sense of unconditional love would have solved their numbness/neuroses.
Its been fascinating and challenging - and one thing it suggests to me is that unconditional love could be a very efficient way to integrate and calm the disparate inner voices of shame. I think i see why your models suggested this would be a valuable and popular sub and my guess is that this will contribute a lot to how future subs work in healing the self.
I guess my question is how much do you think that 'love is the answer' to the many ills we have and whether you could share any insight on the role of love in development and healing.
I won't name names but thinking back to some of the darker voices that have been on this forum, there were guys who had no sense of the humanity of women, and others who seemed unable to get people at all. I wonder how much a sense of unconditional love would have solved their numbness/neuroses.
