01-18-2021, 09:01 PM
(01-18-2021, 09:47 AM)Shannon Wrote:(01-17-2021, 11:24 PM)AriGold Wrote: @Shannon
One thing I am interested in and I hope it will be a part of the subliminals one day (maybe it already is):
As CatMan described his "story" I couldn't help but think "what if he somehow forgot about his past and just walks through the world without his past and burdens and thoughts from before". So somehow like a stone that fell on his had and let him forget about before, he still has all his talents and abilities. Pair that with a kind of confidence programming.
What could happen? He is no longer tied to his past and he just goes after the women he finds attractive and does not link every "fail" to his past, he does not take it personally, he might even think it is a game they want to play with him and he joins in.
But this was just meant as an example, you can exchange the persons and the goals here with nearly everything. There are people which past seems to be:
- I never was good with money, I never had money... (so the story continues in the future) and I never will have money
- I was never good with women, I never had women... (so the story continues in the future) and I never will have women
- I never was good with people, people don't like me... (so the story continues in the future) and I never will be good with people
- I never was a successful person, I never had success... (so the story continues in the future) and I never will have success
So if we, with the help of the subliminal, can make a break with the past story we can start a new story for the future that is independent from what happened.
Unfortunately, that doesn't work, as far as I have been able to determine. That idea is not new to me. I tried that in various different ways. The subconscious is far too complex for the answer to be that simple, as far as I can tell.
Ok. So nothing to forget the past.
But still the problem is, the life story as we tell it to ourselves and to others is the one that is keeping us in the same line. A person who is XY and always was XY needs to tell his story differently to get to Z, otherwise he will always go back to XY. If you saw Westworld you might know what I mean by that, well you might already know what I mean by that.
I see it in a lot of biographies of successful persons that give the same stuff that happened to them before a completely new meaning bedded into a story that leads them to their new goal.
Something like "I was always bad with women, I never had a women... [this is the part where it normally continues to "and I will never be good with women", but here comes the change] and that was the reason to learn everything to know about women to become the best seducer ever lived (in my area)"
The reasons won't change but what we make out of it, how we read it and how we tell it in the future that is a big key to the successful transformation. In the beginning there will only be the story that you tell yourself, after some time you will start to like the story, you will start to believe the story and then you will be the story.
That is also why I see it with a certain amount of worry when people start their journal with "I was always XY, I am still XY and I feel I always will be XY, let's see if the sub makes a difference". That already tells there is very high resistance in play. Every post that they tell the story again in the same way will be their proof that they want to stay on their old story route and are not open to a new one.