Shannon's Journal Discussion Thread, Vol. 5

[Jake2015]

@Shannon Hope youre well.

Im wondering with all my fears, does lack of self esteem, self worth or lack of confidence all stem from fear too and can OF work on helping with this?

having fallen for and lost the girl that I fell in love with and thought was the one has made me wonder did I lack something inside and if so was it all the above?

thanks

OF deals with fear.  If you fear is caused by something else, that will also be dealt with.

The way of the world is, you probably won't find "The One" during the first 30 - 35 years of your life.  So stop thinking like that.  You have to be developed enough for "The One" to want you.  Even if you meet them, they won't want you if you're not what they need.  You need to focus on becoming the best version of yourself you can be, and doing it without "The One".  I went through a lot of what you're talking about, and later on realized I was looking for someone to be my mother and take care of me so I didn't have to face my fears and grow up.  Not saying that's what you're doing, but it sounds familiar.

So my advice is, if you want a woman to choose you, work on being what she wants and needs.  That means developing yourself, improving yourself and making yourself all that you can be.  When you do that, you will have pick of the litter - believe me.  Good men are hard to find, and they have options.

Thank you Shannon, and ofcourse using OF is the first stage of trying to better myself. Any other tips do share on how to become the best version of myself I can.

I read something in this discussion about maybe you may upgrade OF from its current version to another more upto date version. If that is the case:

1) How much more advanced than currently will it really be?

2) I am currently on OF and hoping it works for me, would you think I would need to upgrade since im still waiting to execute?

thank you